Im actually not good at breaking LMR since I dont usually experience it, my general tactic is physical push-pull but this chick is driving me insane.

Here is the backstory. Im kinda staying over at her place during the break and she likes me (and I like her) however she has heard stories about be being a "player" whatever that means. basically every night (4 so far) we lay and watch a movie and make out hard core until it gets to sexual touching and then she makes an excuse, after which we fall asleep together.

First night excuse was "we are too drunk" and "are you sure u want to do this" (I obviousely said yes). second night she says that she isnt sure cuz im leaving (Im actually going back to australia for six months in a week or so). Third night she says "Im not trying to do that in my parents house" (that is where we are staying). Last night I managed to make her take her clothes off (all except panties) and fingered her but she wouldnt do it cuz "its her house" and her mum already suspects stuff I guess. Last night she also wouldnt sleep in the same bed because "her mum told her to sleep in her own bed from now on"(Im sleeping in a seperate room).

she seems so distant sometimes but at other times she goes along with it. Last night I told her to tell me when she wanted to me stop but she just kept pulling my hand out of her panties and she told me "I cant tell you I want you to stop beacuse it would be untrue". Problem is im only here 2 more nights before we have to say bye, WHAT DO I DO?? This is driving me insane...

I don't have a lot of experience with LMR either, since I tend to get with girls 22 and over, but I figured someone should try to help you before time's up. First off, why are you even at her house? Are your parents friends with her parents? If so, her primary concern is probably that her parents will find out, which could happen if you tell your parents.

But I guess that's really neither here nor there. She's coming up with a ton of excuses that change every five minutes. If you're doing your shit right, really the only thing that should be on her mind is getting you inside her, fuck the consequences. Fingering is good and all, but it's not enough for her. What DOES she need? Shit, if I was there, I'd know. You have to really pay attention to what she likes and take charge; I get the impression that you're doing a lot of talking, which lets all these excuses come out. These excuses are all BS, she's just not sure that you're a quality guy and you're not tuning her like the lovely instrument she is (put your mouth on her, shit).

Anyway my friend, you are only in town for 2 days. In her mind, this will be the perfect crime and all the evidence goes back to Australia. This is convenient, but somehow you're screwing up the program. You're a rare sexual commodity that's only available for 2 more days! Stop asking this girl what's wrong and telling her to say when to stop (and stopping even when she says she can't say stop), and start proving that she's going to regret it for 6 months if she lets you slip through her fingers.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Man Im not doing a whole lot of talking at all and I only stop when she literally pulls my hand away (or may face, I havent been able get my tongue inside yet only very close). Thats why its confusing

Just for reference, im at her house because she invited me to stay for the holidays and I thought what the hell. I didnt know her parents before and they dont know mine either and even if they did why the hell would I tell my parents? they dont know anything about my sex life.

And I dont know what she needs, obviousely. I think she is scared her parents will find out, several nights she slept in my bed and the next day her mum said she should sleep in her own bed (the mother is quite religious btw). I told her to go with it and not to worry etc but nothing.

Umm so how do I prove she will regret it in six months? I tried being cocky and everytime I say something like "you dont get an oportunity like this often" she says that im cocky or funny or that im rediculous.

Maybe its actually logistics? Find a place where she can feel safe and have no logistical excuses. Work from there.

Good point, I guess I wasn't actively listening, but her excuses are centered around being at home it looks like. It is winter though, maybe there just aren't any other places available. Sorry I'm not much help, it's just so hard to give advice by proxy. I'm still convinced animal lust will beat out bad logistics, though.

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31 and still figuring it out.

never mind, figured it out by myself. I spent all of yesterday touching her and kissing her and then at night I had to painstakingly and patiently take each piece of clothing off one by one so she felt comfortable. It took for ever.

When I go to the panties she just said "your killing me, sigh.." and that was it, thanks for the help though guys.