Hey, so i ve been seeing this girl for 3 months and then we decided to be "friends", on Tuesday i went to her house to watch a movie. We started making out and we ended up having oral sex. The problem is, we still text but i don't know what to say, its pretty awkward...also before we sleep on Tuesday, she mentioned that she didn't expect it to go that far...I need help guys! any suggestions?

Awkwardness is a perception. Someone is only awkward if you make it awkward. If you're feeling awkward she will pick up on this and she'll feel it too, just act like nothing happened, be like you were before this happened.

Soo true man, thanks alot!

Yea man, Danzella is right. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

I've been to parties or some social event where I've seen a girl that I hooked up with a while back or whatever, and sometimes I can notice the girl looks as if she's going to feel awkward about it for a second. Then, I just lighten up, smile, make solid eye contact, and say with enthusiasm " Hey! What's up, hows it going?!" And go from there.

Works every time, cause once you've led and made it obvious that your mature about things and whatever you did before was not a big deal, she'll recognize that and get over it right away. The result, no awkwardness!

Good luck man!