| Hi Guys,
Long time lurker, first time poster. If anyone can help me with this I'd appreciate it, apologies for the long story, I tried to stick to the key points:
Five days ago I met a HB7.5 working the bar at a music festival. Each time I went up to get drinks we'd chat, and I was seeing IOIs. I've never gone for a number close before and chickened out, so I gave her my business card and said if she'd like to get coffee or a drink she could text me.
After the festival she texted me, and we went back and forth for a couple of hours that night. I asked her to meet me for coffee two days later and she said yes.
We met for coffee and talked for quite some time; I remember reading that you should keep it under an hour so the conversation doesn't dry out. During this time she told me she had a BF, and talked a lot about how he cheated on her and toyed with her emotions etc. She also mentioned they bought a house together. We spent two hours talking, it seemed so natural. (If it matters, she's 24 and I'm 25.)
After this I asked her to drinks, which she said yes to. She asked me to accompany her to her friend's birthday which I did; we went for drinks later. During drinks we started making out, she initiated. We walked around a bit outside, stopping frequently to make out more, then caught a cab back to mine.
Back at mine we put on a TV show and made out some more. She mounted me and we continued; as I started to lift her very long dress, she grabbed my hand and put it on her waist and said "no sex", shortly followed by "sorry". I said it was ok (mistake?), and we made out a bit more, intermittently, then slept in separate rooms (as I have a single bed which she made clear was quite small, which I guess was a fair call).
This morning we woke up and watched a movie on my bed, which was followed by more cuddling/occasional making out. After the movie she went to leave, and we started kissing heavily while standing. During that time she said "I really wanna f-ck you", and I just gave a smirk with a sound.
What should I have done here? Also, what should I do if I see her again? I'm obviously going for an f close, but wasn't sure if I could.
Thanks for your help guys, I appreciate it
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