Dear gamers!
I've got a 9'er here, however she has got a problem: a boyfriend.
I've kissed with her been to her place a couple of times. However every time I try to up the ante she holds back saying: I don't want to cheat.
She told me she doesn't want to lose me, however she also doesn't want to hurt her current boyfriend becouse it "feels alright" with im. What I'm thinking is why do you like me so much if every thing is alright with your boyfriend, something is wrong here. Some times she gives me signs she wants to be with me and other times she gives me signs she wants to keep things open. In other words i'm realy confused.
She also told me that she is afraid to show her true feelings and her true self becouse she could get hurt. (like she got the e-brake on) Now how do i break through that "shield"? And get her to give it all to me?
Just now she contacted me on MSN from her boyfriends place, he was gone.
Dunno what that means....
any way i think you guys get the point, if not i'll give more examples.
greetings!!

That's messed up. Right now you are second best. Why be number two? Why would you do that to yourself. In a way she is gaming you and keeping you around as a backup. She has manipulated you into believing that there is a chance that you two may be together.

You have to be harsh and tell her to make a decision. She'll probably go back to her bf but hey at least you can hold your head high and get on with gaming the hundreds of other single women out there.

I don't agree you have to be harsh. When is there a need to be harsh? Rarely ever.

A much better approach is to discuss with her that maybe she needs to consider being single for a while. That way she can pursue things with people without worrying about cheating. The fact that she's spending all this time with you obviously means she's not getting everything she needs out of her current relationship, and she's only with him because she doesn't want to be alone.

Give it to her straight.

Thanks guys,
I think it's over, to bad.
Oh whell it was fun while it lasted.
Thanks for the advice!
Have fun gaming!
Ciao

Looks like she made the right decision.

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