Okay i called her had a little laugh and then asked her to join me and my friends to a bowling next friday or thusday and she said okay keep me updated.

now the problem is the logistics - the bowling place i told her were gonna go i just called and they closed not long ago so they didn't update the website.
the friends part i can get some friends to come with me whereever, i just don't know if it's the right choice, should i somehow turn this into a date (i mean not come with my friends). i want to take her some place fun - so if bowling is out of question i thought maybe billiard or something.


would love your response guys, thanks.

yeah, i would go with m and f friends, preferably two couples. let them know beforehand you like this girl etc etc and if your friends are good friends and socially intelligent she will be so yours. if you can only go with m friends, i dont know. if your friends can be dicks at times dont go down this route, its bound to turn into an AMOG fest. 'im gonna slander everyone else so the only women likes me best' mentallity. have seen this happen in groups before, its not pretty, in one instance the girl got up, said they were all pricks and left early. however it entertained me to spectate and learned me a little. mates should be mates and help and wing eachother. think about it guys. if your pal starts seeing a girl, sooner or later you will meet her mates..... or she might even DHV you when your out and you start talking to other girls. think most guys in pick u have a respect for ther friends situations with girls and gen want to help. however AFC's compete a lot and very ineffectively, and it quickly becomes counter productive.

if you can get a mixed group together or some guys that wont be dicks, consider asking one or two of your friends to DHV for you and maybe even go over wing tactics with them if you have the time. playing pool or bowling is always a good casual date. its still kinda a date cos she is still going with you as she doesnt know anyone else.

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Hey Joyofsun,

Just let her know the situation, and tell her your going to take her out somewhere else. If your going to bring your friends along just ask yourself, "what if I went out with her and her friends, how would I feel?"

Samex

Well if i were her i would feel a bit out of place.
therefore i thought of asking her today to meet me for a cofee when i asked her when i can call yesterday the answer was pretty much that she dosen't have anything to do most of the day, so i think there is a good chance she will take that offer.

I might feel a bit nervous because I don't know what her friends will be like. This is why really don't like the idea of inviting a girl out along with friends of mine. Now she might have some anxiety over what my pals are like.

As a PUA however I would go out with her and her friends since if I win them over then that would be good.

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