Alright, last Saturday I went out with a girl and we did remarkably well. Got all the way to the k-close and even got a little tongue action. I've been speaking to her for a few days now over IM and I like this girl a bit but she's relatively inexperienced with relationships and a virgin. I don't want to rush sex but I do want to get the f-close. It's not my only goal but I would like to achieve this to ensure things progress smoothly. The problem is she's 18 and she lives with her parents. I have to travel to see her down in another city but it's only an hour away. I asked her if she would like to date exclusively and she's agreed (a couple days ago) so what would be my next course of action?

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When you've done something right, nobody can be sure you've done anything at all.

Drop the hidden agenda & don't kiss & tell.

Be honest about what you want.

But be careful, some girls who say they're virgins like to keep the guy hanging forever without sex like it's some kind of fairy tale love BS.

I've had enough bad experiences with this.

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

I am in a similar situation than you are. I think it is great advice that you tell her what you want so that she is aware that you want that. I am in a situation where the girl has had sex but only with one guy. She is inexperienced but i have kept it very honest with her. She tells me to be patient, so i will just continue to slowly escalate until i have sex with her. That way, it will seem smooth. I am also aware that if it seems like it is taking too long, I will address it with her so that she knows that I want sex and that she will love it too after she has it with me. I jst thing that there are some females who do not have good sex and then they get turned off by it. But once they notice that with you it would be very special and good, that enticement is enough to drive her to want to have sex....
I hope what I posted was relavent, and if you guys have any advice, dont hesitate to post it up for me....

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