hi, i have a problem im sure more then a few of u guys will be able to help me with, basically i dont have problems gettin girls numbers and mebis gettin a cheeky kiss in a club, bar whatever, but my problem is that i tend to then have shit text game and seem to destroy wat i have already built, so basically i need some advice mebis some great text openers and basically a few ideas to help me progress in this part of my game, safe

Keep text to 1 sentence ideally - short and to the point, only to keep in touch - always phone call whenever possible. Don't have text conversations unless she's the kind of girl who loves txt conversations and likes building comfort that way.

My opinion: If it rings out, dont' text, give her the chance to call back or txt back and ask whats' up. If another day you ring and she still never calls back - it's sensible to send a short text saying hey tried to catch you, when are you free, or something like that.

But basically be very short, but use kind words, maybe a smiley if nessecary. You want to keep the spark.