Hey guys,

Ok, I'm getting pretty tired of this shit with this girl. We met at a club, on our first date I didn't kiss close because one of my conversation topics was like "how many kids would you have?" earlier. I know it was stupid and I knew it was stupid as soon as I said it.....there was awkward silence and I was high. I texted her on the way home and said that I'm not looking to rush anything so that worked and we had dates 2 and 3.

BOTH of those dates, she was at my house and every time I go in for a kiss, I get it and I usually start caressing her leg or thigh....BUT for like 5-10 seconds...and there is a bit of tongue from her (which gives me the impression she is interested). We sat on my couch smoked hookah and watched either a movie or tv. Both times I've made it rather obvious that I wasn't happy with the level of action we've been taking. Saying things like "is that all I get? you can do better than that". The last time I said "I don't get you" after she did her usual pull away after 10 seconds....and she said "what?! I'm not the type to just put out" - I was late in pointing out that kissing is NOT putting out!

Lately during our texting, I've been dropping hints that I need more activity, like she was at Vegas and I texted how was it:
HB: "I won $300"
Me: "Cool, next time I'll bring you with me to give me some luck"
HB: "But I lost $150 in roulette"
Me: "well you just talked yourself out of coming with me to Vegas"
HB: "I'll talk my way back in"
Me: "it's not about talking the talk, but walking the walk."

And silence........

So I don't get it....she is 24, asian and here on her own, working and going to school and was in a sorority. I can't fathom her being a virgin or as prude as she makes herself seem, so is she just seeing how long she can string me along? Because she shows sign of interest, she texts me after I don't for days. She asked to hang out after cancelling one night. Out of 3 dates, she came over twice to sit on my couch and smoke hookah and watch TV and I have two cats that she is allergic to, she took some claritin that I had.

So I'm honestly stumped....do I be more aggressive? Or just straight up ask her if she's a virgin or something? I tried the first time she was over to be aggressive and while she was pulling away I didn't let her and instead picked her up and put her on my lap.....she got up immediately.

What the hell do I do with this girl?!

Thanks guys, any advice would help.




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