ok so i have recently got out of a LTR (2 year+) and i thought my game would need some work but it seems to be going ok...

my problem is this:

im getting the attraction and comfort down pat, the attraction is simple as i'm mostly gaming online dating sites at the moment so you just sit there and they fall in your lap, wink you or whatever.

but i have built comfort with like 7 or 8 of them now.. all i would like to fuck but none of them i want a relationship with...

obviously the girls all want relationships, i used to get around that by just pretending and then running when i got what i wanted but there has to be a cleaner way!

i would prefer not to hurt their feelings and shit if you know what i mean, plus doing that shit is bad for my rep...

any recommendations please how to get this relationship shit out of their mind, i just want to meet and fuck and escape, i know i am home with all of them they tell me as much but they get scared i'm a just a playa (funny that... lol)

any recommendations how to bed these chicks with no mess? how?

or do you have to just play them with no conscience? =/

i won't settle for nothing but a 10 this time but i need a few rebounds to get the confidence back up... i'm sick of just talking... please help!! lol

Most dating sites ask what you want to get out of it. Do not put relationship. Be honest with the girls.

Tell them you just got out of a long relationship and you're not ready to invest that much emotion into another one for a while.

Honesty probably is the best policy but most of them put down only after something serious, not here for sex, no 1 night stands etc etc. lol so it feels like if i do that i will shoot myself in the foot...

my mate games them well, he just says he is going overseas next year so there is no point starting anything serious, AFTER he has bedded them though lol.