Sunday Night was a big one, as a mate of mine is leaving the country in a few days. I ran into a friend of mine (We'll call her A) and she had a friend with her (We'll call her B). I did pretty well building interest, comfort and attraction with girl B who I hadn't met prior. K-closed and n-closed and she seemed to be fairly interested. Half the problem is, I've kissed girl A a few times in the past (while back) and we're naturally big on kino when we see each other. Said she was jealous she 'missed out', but I wanted to focus on girl B. Anyway - apparently I said we'd do lunch and she reminded me about this on facebook the next day.

Question: How should I approach girl B (the target) via text? I'd like to get to know her a little better so I think escalating to a day 2 is probably important. This might be hard given the history with girl A? Should I ask girl B to join me and girl A for lunch, or should I try and meet with 'em separately?

Note: I'm just friends with girl A, but it may not always look that way.

Don't shit where you eat.

If you like "Girl A" as a friend/lover , drop "Girl B". It's simply not worth it. If you decide not to go for Girl B after all she'll murder your chances of getting with/being around Girl A.

Solid advice.

An advantage I have is that I don't see girl A too often, and it's been 18 months or so since I last kissed her. She's a nice girl, I'm confident this is a scenario that won't backfire. Usually I would run with your advice - and anyone who's reading this, should most of the time - but these two are a little different in that they're playful but not headstrong in the stubborn bitch way.

Update;

I texted girl B and used the principles of arranging a day two. Kept the convo light hearted, negging on her with some inside jokes established on Sunday Night. She said 'Maybe I shouldn't trust what you say ever again haha' in regards to stopping what she was drinking on the night, because I told her it was just a syrup out of a pineapple can lol. Told her 'That means you'd have to decline when I suggest to you we catch up.' ... Got a great response after that, and agreed to meet up. Said I was busy for the rest of the week but that I'd message her. She said to let her know when I've got a plan and to enjoy the week ahead.

All in all - closing isn't as hard as what you originally think. I've improved a hell of a lot in two weeks from the last time, and it all boils down to being confident in exactly what you're saying.

Shall keep this post updated with the progress over the next week.

Need some opinions.

I haven't yet suggested a catch up on a particular day, I will in another 2 days or so. But we originally agreed on coffee and the movies, and whilst that could work, I feel it's too date-ish. And the movies are boring. So I'm thinking I need a new plan, which is gonna be more interactive and laid back. The upside of this is that I change the plans on her, meaning I keep her on her toes so to speak. Win-win.

Problem is, do what? Not really any decent places to go for a quiet drink around here that I know of. They're all clubs and the one decent bar, you a) see everyone you know there and b) it's only opened Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays. And it'd be packed.

I'm thinking I need more of a mid week plan. Coffee, bite to eat, but what else? Incorporating some quiet drinks is my preferred option so I may look further into it, but I want to do a 2 or 3 destination thing. IE Coffee > Bite To Eat > Somewhere else