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| qwiksilver | PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 4:27 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Sep 22, 2009 7:03 pm Posts: 1 | | Alright so heres the story guys:
Ive been trying to work it with this HB9 at work for quite some time now and have been slowly but steadily gaming her. I ended up taking a role playing tactic and we acted as if we were married but anytime she made a mistake or would try to piss me off i would neg her and say im filling for divorce.
After some time I told her that i didnt want to follow through with the divorce and that she should let me take her out to her favorite place "that we always use to go to" so that i could show her i could still be a good husband. She eventaully agreed and we went on the first date last Sunday after work.
Everything went well I took her to this restaurant she loved and there wasn't a dead moment the whole time. We said we would go hangout at her house after wards and on the way there she even shares with me a very personal secret telling me that shes the only one that knows that her best friend just found out she was pregnant last week, i figured it was a good sign that she was trusting me in telling me. We get there i meet her parents (im a freshman in college and shes a senior in hs) they seemed to be eager and pleased to have met me, and we just join her family that was watching a football game in theater room. After the game, the night kind of ends sort of abruptly and she was very quiet towards the end which worried me a bit. However 5 min after arriving home i received a text apologizing for the silence saying that it was because she was tired and that she had a great time.
The next day text her for a bit but started to get short responses and after i made a joke and just got a "lol" i stopped. The next day i figured i wouldn't text her as an IOD from the short responses.
Wed. I try sending her a blank text as an opener, so when she asks why i sent her a blank text i would just say that she doesnt need an excuse to talk to me and that i would have replied to a simple hi, but it backfired because she didnt even reply. Thurs, i text her for a bit and when i ask her to come see a movie with me, she basically blows me off and says she has too much hw even when i told her i would help her finish it so we could chill and her parents let her skip school all the time.
Then i worked this weekend, i was hoping to see her, the first day she wasnt working but i find out that this AFC i work with was up all night at her house with a couple other people after they had gone to a party that tanked. The next day i see her and shes very unresponsive barely talks to me and i was too hung over to try to constantly initiate conversation with her. However i see her more responsive with the AFC she was with 2 nights before which pisses me off. She gives me a quick personal goodbye when she leaves but thats it.
And now i just cant figure it out. wtf did i do wrong? and whys it so hard to get this girl to hang out again if she said she had a great time on the first date. And if she was BSing me then why waste the time to apologize for being quiet at the end of the night?
Where do i pick up from here, i have oneitis for her, and i feel like i can still pull this off but i have no idea where to start. Any advice guys?
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| JimiDubbz | PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 9:01 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:18 am Posts: 7 Location: Anaheim, CA | | Move on to the next one
If she's interested, she'll wonder where the attention went (or, even better, get jealous). If she's not, it doesn't matter: you've moved on already.
Win-win
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