Background:

I knew this HB9 from the school days but was never really friends with her. I meet her again at a weekend festival. We hooked up & I slept over in her tent but no f-close. I see her again the next night and this time I do f-close. Big time chemistry going on and many IOI's (Hinting that I call her for a future date etc......)

It is Sunday now, how long do I wait to call her? Some say 3-4 days and some say 7-9 days. I won't set up a date on a weekend (DHV), so is it better that I call her this week & that she looks forward over the weekend to a 'day 2' next monday. Or that she gets a suprise day 2 call on Sunday evening for the next day (Also monday)....In this case, she might go out and meet someone else thinking that I just used her for a 1 night stand & that I'm just a player bla bla bla.... (I have been living up the single life a tad & small town)

But this time, I don't want to mess this up. She is def relationship material in every way. She is in transition after coming out of a 3 year relationship and is completely over her ex (No baggage)......... What do you guys think?

I personally think people look into how long to wait before calling/texting/whatever too much. Do what feels natural. Do it sooner than later while she still has that emotional connection fresh in her mind. If you want to call a chick then call her - just not the same night you meet and not with too much frequency if she does not answer or respond. If you put too much thought into how many days to wait to do xyz you start dwelling on the timing and put your energy there rather than into your interaction where it should be.

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OK cool. Makes sense! Agree earlier is better .... Will go with that. Thanks!