Lots of guys go out and make the game harder than it really is. They go out with the sole intention of getting a girls phone number.Here, they are doing two things wrong. They don't know how to get a girls number because their entire game is focused on closing the girl and therefore getting her digits - this will result in fake numbers and flakes..

Ideally, your game should be designed - so that taking her contact info is a last resort. Taking her digits is something you do because there is nothing more you can do.

What a good player aims for is the following:

1. He sleeps with a girl and if she is good in bed - he will take her number to see her again.

2. But, if she is not good in bed, he won't close for a number.

It doesn't work out like this every time but it's the best attitude to have when gaming a woman. You shouldn't be asking yourself how to get a girls number - you should be asking yourself how much further you can take the interaction.

You will be surprised how many times you can get the girl home if you are willing to try and not just settle for a number. Contact information is the very last thing you should go for.

Only when all other options are OFF, can you settle with her phone number. If the final result is that all other options are off then you can start asking yourself how to get a girls number.

There is one big rule. Never ask for number directly, like, "Can you give me your phone number?" or, "What's your phone number?" It sounds too needy and you're giving her the opportunity to say no. Don't ask for anything. Never ask for permission, instead just do it.

That is a general rule for life.

So how do you take her number without asking? Example: Once you are ready to finish the interaction, you say "Listen, you seem like a cool girl - maybe we'll hang out sometime (pass her your phone - close to her heart), put your number in here".

That is the answer to the life-long question of how to get a girls number just like they do in the movie!I never asked for it, I assumed she would give it to me.

Remember - you are the chooser and you KNOW how to get a girls number..

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Good post. I personally view a #c as a failure. Admittedly, I'm presently working myself from KC to FC. Need to fix my frame, I guess. Been a good boy for too long

Personally, I don't view a #close as a failure - I just view it as a form of continuing the interaction in a different location. BUT, if you can go for the instant date or even the kiss, go for it!..

You Only Live Once!

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Let me clarify. Absent some extraneous circumstances, I never go for a #c for two reasons: First, it gives me an excuse to chicken out on escalating. Second, you're bound to lose attraction and comfort as time passes.

Of course, if something happens I can't control, or if I closed but see a window to pick up where I left off later, I'll get the #. Example, I kino with a HB in a club, but right after I isolate, her belligerently drunk friends barge in requiring close supervision. I get her # on the way out, meet up another day, and get my FC. So, sometimes a #c is all you can get, but at that, it is only second best.