Sometimes girls are playing with you via text game. In the open field, face to face, most of us are dominant, and playing with the girl, teasing her, push&pull her, etc.
But once the text game start, the girls get the courage to play or shit test you back, because you're not face to face anymore, and she can decide when and what to text and think over and over it.
Well, that is now happening to me. My weakness is phone and text game. I'm a very sponteneous, assertive and open guy, so when texting I always make my texts too long. I don't do this only with girls, but also with friends. I can text a whole life story to a good friend.

Now I am gaming a girl, the same girl from the "shy girl" topic. She is very shy, so it's confusing me: is she now too shy to text message or is this her battle field where she thinks she can game me?
In both cases, I want some advice. She gave me a bunch of IOI's earlier. Yesterday, I texted her casualy and cocky that I need to buy some stuff in town and that she should join me. she answered she had to work (which is true), and she asked what I needed to buy. I answered, but I got no reply. Today in the afternoon, she texted to my old phone number (which was on a list in an email. She might have lost my number and searched again for it, which is pretty diehard) "have you you found what you sought?". There was no name in it. It was from an number unknown to me but the number was the same as her number in my new mobile phone, so I gave her a playfull answer. But I still got no answer.

So now the question is: if she is playing a game (which sounds more reasonable to me), what is the best counter attack? Should I ignore her text messages next time, or should I bust her for it? And in case she is just shy, what to do then?

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Mate, this may not necessarily be the best thing to do, but I would do, is drop all the gaming shit over text, and just say what you want to say.

I minimise text game to an absolute fraction. My texts basically only aid in meeting up, unless I've laid her or already reached my end goal with her then I chill with it.

The more you open yourself up to text, as you can see here, the less power you have, and the more influence she has to blow you out.

I would just be like:

"When would you like to meet up? Let me know if you have some time x"

Which is pretty much exactly how I'd talk to a mate.

I find if you drop all the games and bullshit over text/phone, then she will do the same. If she's interested in you, she'll reply and get back to you.

There should never be a moment where you are unsure why she is not texting back over phone, because your initial/previous meet in person should have made her value you lots. If you are worrying about why she is not texting back, then you failed in the initial meet. If you know you sarged well and played solid game in the initial meet, and she is not replying, it must be due to extraneous variables such as she is busy or her mum died or Brad Pitt just asked her out. From here I'd try once or twice more then just move on.

On the other hand, if you keep sending all these 'gaming' texts, she'll only feel the need to respond by gaming you back, and this just distorts the path to your end goal, which I presume is laying her.

Hope this helps x

When I feel the "text game" coming on i just reply "texting is gay" and start calling her out for her inability to communicate.

It's easier to hunt in your own territory. If you don't want to be brought out of your element then don't go there. Tell her when you are free and have her call you then. Being busy and not being free to text at anyone's beck is attractive. BE ATTRACTIVE.

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