Had this text convo today with this girl I really like. Over the past couple weeks we've hung out off and on because we're both busy and I've been dropping hints but I didn't think she was fully "getting it". Earlier today we were supposed to go grab some ice cream but she didn't know I had class so she went to study. So I cut to the chase and pulled this...

Me: No worries lol. Def study so you can do good tomorrow and we can figure out something to do later this week.
HB9: You're sooooo sweet
Me: Well isn't that how most guys are with someone they like?


Hasn't responded back, not worried about it though

Classic AFC stuff... you vocalised your feelings for her much too early. Women are damned good at knowing if you like them or not.. you don't need to say it. Some things just don't need to be said, it ruins the moment.

Things not to do now:-

a) Do NOT text her again.. let her text you!

b) Never again tell her how you like her.. you've gotta remain a mystery to get her to wonder if you like her...

c) Attract her with your personality and game.. she needs to fancy you!

Thanks, I definitely agree with a and b. However with c, I as well as a lot of other friends already know she is attracted to me. I overheard her saying to a friend about me "well he's really sweet, I just don't know if he really likes me or is just trying to get with me", in my case it's the first part. Anyway I know the attraction is there I just wanted to put it out there so I'm not wasting either of our time.

Listen, Zanny is right about C despite what your girl said.

You gotta understand that women tend to say one thing and do another. Why? Because they act on their feelings. So if her feelings change then her actions will to.

Totally agree with Zanny. I almost NEVER find it neccesary to actually say to a woman that I like her. If I like her, I'm gonna treat her very good, and then she automatically thinks I like her. But I haven't actually said it, so I'm not pushing things, and she can't bust me for liking her too much too early.