I am not sure this is where I should be posting this so forgive me if it should be elsewhere.

Here is my problem. I met this girl in class a couple weeks ago and I see her twice per week. Last week she invited me to a bar with some of her friends. I assumed they was all girls, it wasn't. She came with 3 girls and 4 guys. One of the guys she is with is named Drew. He isn't the AMOG that's the problem but he is her "best friend" that obviously has a thing for her. The problem with him is that he cuts between us and tries to hog all of her attention.

I didn't want to seem desperate and had already set in my mind that the night isn't about getting the girl its about having fun. For that reason I just stepped down and tried to meet other women. I would flirt with the girl I originally intended to get with and then leave whenever I felt he was trying to block me. I'm not sure this was the right tactic to use in the situation but I felt that I was avoiding being outplayed by not really playing lol. I also was attempting some Push-Pull in doing it.

The AMOG that is a problem is my roommate and wing-man, fuck my life. How do I cut him out without any kind of insult or problem. He likes to control conversation and makes it incredibly hard to work my game. I felt that I got a few IOI's from the girl but I feel that she is very "on the ropes" about sleeping with me. I am not wholly positive that she wants too and I don't want to risk rejection and blowing myself out of the water. How would you suggest I try to bring the girl home?

I had some other situational problems. Her roommate told me she is talking to a guy and that I should not make any move on the girl because she will probably reject me for that reason. Yet, at the end of the night Heather (the girl I want) told me that she hasn't been in a relationship in 4 years and doesn't plan on being in one now. I took this as an IOI because I think she may know my intent. I do after all flirt pretty hard. My game is still....clumsy. I've only used my knowledge to pick take one girl home in 3 weeks. So should I just void what her roommate said and go in for the kill?

I feel that this Friday is my last chance with her. I am going back the the bar with her. I kind of invited myself by telling her the next day at school, "I had fun last night we should do that again this upcoming weekend."

Anyone have a trick to reassure her interest in me? I want to make sure she is interested as well before I make an ass out of myself...I still have to see this girl in class twice a week and I honestly kind of need her help in the class lol. Someone that knows their shit PLLLEEEASE help I am begging.

relax mate this is an easily solved problem

the wing;
it sounds like you and your wing need to come up with a better code on marking your teritory eg discussing which girl you get and which ones he gets...
something simple talk about it before you open the set.

the girls best friend;
look if hes into her, he sees you as a threat so by backing out and comming back in you come off as week to him he thinks hes winning .. what you should do is stay wait for a moment to get her alone better still make a moment for you two to be alone it can be as easy as i need a drinking buddy you should come to the bar or i need your advice but i dont want the others to hear.. and that should seperate her from the flock .. you should be the one directing the set her friends should want you to stay and wont care about the girl.. or you could get your wing to destract the group while you pull your girl aside..

THE GIRL
you wanna see if shes interested ?
im about to give you the
-EASIEST
-QUICKEST
-SAFEST
way to find out.. stand next to her (eg right side) and use the back of your hand to touch the back of hers, if she recipricates its on.. the worst she can do is move her (right) hand and it will be to scratch her (left)elbow

as for all that crap about her having a guy and what not... mate ive moved over seas about 4 months ago and i gotta tell you even if a girl is married and she "loves" the other guy you can still get her...

hope this helped and goodluck

Helps a lot I really appreciate that you took the time to read all that and help me out. Thanks a bunch. Wish me luck!

I had a good friend that was a cockblock. Its messed up but I found the best way to deal with it was to call him out about it in front of our guy friends. Sure he got pissed, but he got over it and has stopped doing it since.