Hi all,

Even though i got into game a few months back, i have progressed much. very confident, almost no approach anxiety etc..very comfortable with kino and stuff..but when the women starts making a move midgame, i get very nervous and anxious..for example last night i was with this woman and she started moving very close to me and slight kino me. i became very nervous..also another time another woman wanted to hang out at some other place..i was with my friends and she wanted to take me somewhere..i got very nervous..one time my friend and me were gaming 2 girls..he left with her..leaving me alone with the other..i became nervous and wanted to leave..i know it doesnt make sense..but even though i enjoy game and being with women..it seems i am scared to getting intimate with them..as if i am scared of sex or even kissing..i never had sex before..i dunno if thats the reason..but how can i overcome this? i have no problem kino escalating but when i realise that the woman will sleep with me, i start to freak out..how to escape this?does everyone(newcomer) have this feeling?

If you're scared of sex, no amount of PUA material or techniques are going to help you get it on. The first step is to figure out why you're scared of sex. It could be any number of reasons:

Are you worried about performance?
Are you self-conscious about your body?
Are you heterosexual? (laugh all you want, but sometimes guys don't realize it till they do it)
Are you afraid of rejection? (even at this point in the game, bad kino can equal gameover)

And a thousand other psychological factors. But since you mentioned you've never had sex before I'm guessing it has to do with the first question.

My advice is to let it happen. You're probably building it up to be this whole gigantic life-changing event that society has us believe it to be. You're going to be no more different afterwards than you are before it. Hell, you might be a little better. This notion may be making you nervous so just imagine you've already done it and go with the flow. I know it sounds easier than it is, but the reality is sometimes you make it hard on yourself (pun fully intended).