Hey people.

Last night I was with this HB 8 all night, we left the club at 3am (I was getting with her all night).

But I just did not know what to say to get her back to my place. She was with a female friend and said she had to get a taxi with her and be picked up in the morning by her parents.

I could tell she might have gone home with me but I couldnt think of anything cool to say to persuade.

It was borderline awkward since I couldn't think of anything to say...

What should I have done?!

Also I got her number so what should I text her? (I hate ringing girls)

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Hey Ember

Man up and ring her!

Did you ask her to come back to yours? Like, directly ask her? Or was it that you couldn't think of any reason to get her back so never asked?

When you say 'getting with'....was it just kissing, or did you sexually escalate past that at all? I guess if you sexually escalate in the club it makes it easier.

OR.....you could always try something like 'I so want to take you back to mine, I feel a really good connection to you and this is really intense. But we shouldn't, I've only just met you.' and see what she says.....I mini freeze out i guess.

Ok the last one isn't field tested. But i reckon it might work.

See you soon mate.

I didn't sexually escalate, mine and her friends were sitting 1 metre away.
I was LAME at trying to get her back to my place, I literally said 'Do you want to come back to mine'. In my defence I was wasted and never expected it to get that far.

I could tell I might have taken her home, I just wasn't smooth enough.

Thanks for the tips, they sound good, i've done a bit of research on it too.

I text her a few days ago, we should be meeting up wednesday for drinks (and a bit more).

Seeya

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