I know I'm new here, so I feel the need to explain my intent with this situation;
To me, it wasn't about running game. I don't typically ask women out who I wont see myself with. I genuinely wanted to be with this woman. I've got a son and I am a work-aholic. To me, learning how to become a PUA is also teaching me how to keep a woman, which is my largest failure in life. I can snag them, I just cant keep them. That's why I'm here, to polish my character. I also want to see AFC's succeed in life because I know how it feels to be an AFC. So while I'm around, I'm gona occasionally throw out advice.

This was natural game, I never read any books about picking up women until 2 weeks ago and this happened in March.

I pulled this awesome trick on my ex girl. It was a dope neg in my opinion, but it really disarmed her.

This was officially the second time we ever went and hug out. I met with her at 12 in the afternoon and I tell you what, she inspired me so much that I never ever ever..... even when I was married, was as romantic as I was when I was with her... especially that day. Anyways, I'm digressing... the point:

So around 6pm we went to go see a movie and we got our seats and whatever... I got up to use the restroom. I looked back at her and she put on lip-gloss. instant IOI...

So I get back and kinda rub shoulders to cuddle up next to her. I grabbed her hand and I got the look.

She was on my left side, so I placed my right hand on her left cheek and took her right hand with my left.

I leaned over to kiss her and she was super ready. I got super super close to her lips, held it there for a moment, then I negged her:

I felt spontaneity was in order so I sniffed her lip-gloss (on her lips) and pulled away, on purpose.

She lost it. She laughed so hard she was almost in tears.

While she was laughing, I grabbed her right hand and gently massaged it. I went from friendly massage to a more sexual hand/arm massage. It calmed her down so much, I could tell it was affecting more than her arms and handa. After about 5-8 minutes I got that look again and kissed her.

DAMN she was amazing.

I pulled this maneuver off and on through the course of our relationship. She never failed to laugh and occasionally she would tackle me, pin me down, and kiss me because I was reminding her of our first kiss.

Romance is great.

It also sucks because I still have one-itis for her.

Great work! I like this.

"That look". Is it the one where you look eachother in the eye for 3+ seconds and end up kissing to break the tension? How can you tell when to kiss a girl? Should you wait for that look?

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17 Year old AFC.
Don't bother trying to convince a woman, argue with her, or
otherwise engage her on a logical level, - Mystery

When you're overcome by the desire to do so. When your faces are close and she's holding it there.

Gr4p3: Its like this man:
I'm gona explain it two ways. The first one will teach you how to say 'no.' And you have to have the balls to say no. It will also help you overcome your fear of speaking to a how woman. I didn't say it will cure you, but it will help:

1) Go to the mall and find a keyosk where they sell Lotion or some kind of Israeli skin care product. It will help more if you ask a woman who is an HB7+. Ask her to demonstrate a skin-care product for you that involves dead-sea salts. If she doesn't automatically shift gears and pull out the lotion, ask her if they sell any. Listen to her and pay attention because you will learn how to take care of yourself a little better.

Meanwhile, that woman is going to ask you if you have a g/f or why you don't have one. She is going to make you comfortable and get you to lower your guard to get you to buy this product. She WILL use NLP on you. I hope you remember what NLP is. She is GOING to sell you this product if you don't have the balls enough to say no. WHEN she uses NLP on you, and she will from the beginning, she is going to massage some of that lotion into one of your hands. And shes going to do it in a VERY sensual way. Again, this is another technique shes going to use to lower your guard to buy this thing. And more than likely, shes going to look into your eyes and lock you in with a VERY flirtatious look. Heres the key.
She not flirting with you. Shes looking for that look.... the one youre asking me about. You'll end up doing it to her. Thats when she knows she has your undivided attention and you will more than likely buy the damned thing you can get at Walmart.

How do I know this shit? Cause i was training myself to flirt with women who get paid to flirt with guys. Honestly, because of that training, I can approach 2+ HB8+'s without hesitation. I have my moments of approach anxiety... I did last week, but still.... practice is practice. I think out of the 6 times I've done this, I've purchased product and one time I walked away with a phone number.... i have no complaints over my success rate of 2/5 keyosk girl approaches in the past couple of months.


2) NONE of this will work... NOT ONE BIT, if you have not established a secure connection with her, disarmed her, developed trust, or if your confidence has been shaky.

Remember what I said about the keyosk girl giving you that nice massage? Try your best to remember how she massaged your arm or hand or whatever and implement that technique on the woman you're with. It takes practice. It works wonders at the movies.

if you can massage her arm/wrist in a very relaxing way, you'll notice her squirm a little and try to recover... she may get a little warm too. try not to stare when she does that because she is more than likely embarrassed. Just keep massaging. After she kinda recovers, lift up the arm-rest that is separating the two of you and get your shoulders to touch... like you want to cuddle. She will reciprocate. Keep massaging. I work best by being on her right hand side. When your shoulders touch and she starts squirming a little again while you massage her, gently take her right hand into your left hand, reach for her left cheek and as gentle as you can, rest your hand on her cheek... Like you would hold a new-borns hands to hold them. THAT gentle. with your finger-tips, bring her face to yours. You will look into her eyes and see that hers will be closed... (or if shes a dangerous freak, they may not be). You WILL see that look ALL over her face. Your built-in man instincts will know what to do when you Kiss Close her. Take your time. YOU be the first one to stop. If you stop, she may not want to. Make the kiss about HER. You should do your best to make every situation accommodate her.

(I use that term 'freak' lightly because the truth of the matter (for me) is that a woman who looks into your eyes while you kiss or whatever is a deep and confident woman. She wants to know if you feel the same. I use the term dangerous because she wants you and wants you bad if shes gonna look int your eyes. Again... this is my experience)

One last thing.
You're no longer a 'nice guy.' You're here and you're on our team now. Develop your skills and read Styles new book: Rules of a Game. You'll get confidence in no time if you can do the daily challenges.