I'll make it short.

There is an HB9 who ive known for a long time. We've hung out a couple times and she's definatly attracted to me. We been texting back and forth the past couple days and she had a breakdown about how hurt/worthless she feels. She says she feels like she has an empty life since her friends all have BF's and she dosent.

I'm not a cocky prick anymore, so I said to her she can come with me to the mall this week when i gotta run some errands and we can talk about her shit.

I can see the Friend Zone warning from a mile away. But how should I handle this situation because i'm 120% shes attracted to me, but I dont want to be the shoulder to cry on... so?

No matter what Sergio you have to be concerning to her and comfort her feelings but it is VERY important you sexually escalate with her.

If you do not introduce a sexual element between you, you will be left in the dreaded 'Friends Zone' Fact. If you believe she is attracted to you, it is time to take it upon yourself to lead her into seduction. That is our duty as men.

Its time to implement kino and push pull, run some compliance tests on her to be 100% she's into you then go for the k-close..maybe more

If she does not pass compliance tests leave them for a while then go and try again.

Note: try to transition off of the texting to phone calls instead(you can add more elements to your conversation this way eg emotion, impact and story teling through vocal tonality and voice pacing.) Txs should be for just flirting and logistics.

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Patranova you're so right. Texting is for fliring and logistics, I've never heard anyone say that. Can you give me an example of a compliance test though?

Sorry OP, but I'm interested as well.

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Vuvuzela, first of all great name dude. I just hope you dont go peacocking with one of them man !

A compliance test is simply a task you give a woman. Start off small to BIG.

Small ones e.g
Holding your drink while you take off your jacket at the bar.
Give her the money to get you a drink whilst you go to the toilet (make the drink difficult- (4 ice cubes and a slice of lime).
Hold her hand and gently spin her round on the spot
Put out your hand for her to hold it then walk with her to another point in the club/bar etc

As your relationship grows with this woman you will be able to give her bigger tasks to do eg.

Pick you up from somewhere
Make your dinner
Do your shopping
Other domestic crap
SE etc

Note: It is important to note that if there is no compliance you should throw in a IOD (indicator of disinterest) as a sign of your not happy with that behaviour.
If she passes one of your compliance tests follow it up with a IOI (indicator of interest) as a reward for good behaviour.

I could write alot more on this subject but as to give a general understanding i hope this has helped.

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