ok i think i have strung this situation out too long, and need to get back on the right track.. I am in college and this girl is in one of my classes tuesdays and thursdays, sits directly in front of me. she is a 9. i began successfully negging her 2 weeks ago, and feel very confident that attraction was built. however, i pussied out on getting her # or a date w her anywhere still to this point. in fact, i think i may have overnegged, because today she made a comment that indicated a bit of contempt. this signaled to me that comfort phase must be put into action, and i was very nice today. for the first time there was awkwardness between us today. how do i get back on the right track??

You might have screwed yourself by switching from negging to being too nice. Try limiting the negs and doing more DHV and then escalate to kino if you get the chance. If she's been giving you IOIs, stop waiting and phase shift it towards a kiss close or a number close. Stop wasting time negging so much and escalate it towards a number close quicker in the future because what you've most likely done is you got her interest and then you just stayed in the same phase and she got bored of you. The contempt was probably that you didn't have the balls to move it forward.

I agree with pastrami on Rye...haha sorry couldn't resist...she probably showed some contempt because she's tired of waiting and is signaling you to move forward. I'd definitely work on some DHV stories...if you've been talking to her for 2 weeks you should know a bit about her. Whatever it is she's interested in find a story from your life that DHV's you this way (Listening actually is important guys).

Class is an awkward place for kino, but not if done right. Go sit next to her. Let your arms/shoulders touch a bit so she's get comfortable with the thought of you guys having physical contact. Keep negging, but make sure to build yourself up with some DHV's.

As of now you are "some guy that sits behind me and teases me". You want to be "This interesting guy who I really want to get to know" So then you can turn into the "Guy that gave me a multiple orgasm yesterday in physics lab"...know what I mean?

thanks guys i really appreciate it, i think you are right