So i go out with this girl. She's smoking. There was great chemistry. I give her a kiss goodnight and i book it. It was going so well that I forgot to get her number. I email her the next day telling her i forgot it. She replies with it.

She asks how my day is. I reply with message telling her my day is going great except for the Lebron James betrayal (from Ohio). I don't hear back. I see her online, and didn't hear back. I blow it off, maybe she didn't get my message. Saturday rolls around, I told her i'd get in touch with her if my buddies and I were heading to the beach. Don't hear back...

Sunday night? Like the impatient fool I am, I email her and tell her.

"Well... I'm not sure what i said to put you off, which is a shame. I had a lot of fun with you.

But c'est la vie.

Good luck in your search."

I get this reply late last night

"What? I haven't been online in a few silly. Just got back from the beach! I hope you had a good weekend, yes?"

i sent her a text saying "I sent you a text on sat about the beach... Never heard back"

Did I just blow this?

dude, she prolly doesn't check her email everyday. Don't act so needy. Just be like "hey no problem" and take it from there.

Nahhh your still good (Unlike LeBron who can never be "good" again)

Don't worry too much about it, thats the worst thing you can do. Live and let live.

Try always giving her the benefit of the doubt.

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.

So here's the update: I heard back from her at the beginning of the week. We exchanged a email or two and then that was it... Until last night. Up until then, I had completely passed her off as over and done with.

Here is the email she left me.

"This week has been such a whirlwind at work, cant believe it is Friday tomorrow. Plans that happened - oh work and the gym had too much fun last weekend and looking forward to this wknd. How was ur week?"

It doesn't sound like she is down to hang out, in my opinion. I would think that she would maybe ask about getting together again or something of the sort. Which is why I think, it took her so long to respond. I want to email her back and say " look, i appreciate the email response, but I don't feel that the same energy is there." Then again, I don't want to ruin my chances of banging this broad.

just say something in the regards of how you're week was awesome. Lie about a thing or 2 you did that you know she would be jealous of and then say im absolutely stoked for this upcoming weekend too. What ive learned is if a girl is pre-rejecting you give it right back to her as if you were never going to ask her to hang out. For example since this chick said she basically already has plans this weekend somehow think of something that is coming up this weekend that you would FOR SURE not invite her to. Like something only guys would enjoy like a car show or some shit. To keep it in short, never seem like you don't have plans, cause when you do, thats when she will know you are needy.

Good luck, just my 2 cents

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