| Hi all,
RAFC here and I've been having some trouble going for the K-close.
So here's some background:
I'm living in dorms for the summer with a large group of classmates. I've been gaming the girl that lives across the hall from me, but despite several opportunities to close, I've missed them or obstacles came up which I didn't know how to bypass, and now I'm afraid of being LJBF'd, if I didn't do that to myself last night already.
She is definitely attracted to me, lots of IOIs, kino is there. So at this present moment, its do or die. Both of our roommates are out of town for the weekend so we have our places to ourselves. Last night, we went out with a group. I ended up isolating at a bar, getting some good kino and conversation in. Then, I went for a venue change (food) planning to take her home after. Unfortunately, on the way out we ran into our group again and I lost the isolation.
I was able to isolate again for a short time on the train ride home, but at this point I was sensing the night was not going to end the way I wanted it to. When we got back home and reached our floor, it was myself, the target and another female. I asked if they were going to bed, the other female said yes but the target invited me into her room under the pretense that we were going to drink a little more (we were both essentially sober at this point though... her moreso).
And here, like a previous experience (she invited herself into my room when my roommate was out) is where my game totally fell apart. We ended up not drinking (she didn't want to, wasn't about to drink by myself, probably lowering value) and we were sitting across from each other at a small coffee table. I'd gone over some K-Close routines earlier but I couldn't figure out how to apply any of them here. At some point I worked my way over to her roommate's bed and laid down. I was frustrated at this point and in retrospect this was probably a big mistake. She stayed in her chair, I wasn't sure how to proceed. After talking for a while more with nothing happening I left.
Now after this incident I'm afraid I may have lost her interest and been LJBF'd. Then again I'm encouraged by the fact that I had already thought this happened before last night, but there was definitely still attraction there. We are probably going to hang out in the daytime today, and then will probably see each other again later tonight (11pm-midnight). Ideally, I'd like to do some physical escalation or something to build tension during the day and then come back and K-close or more tonight.
Any and all advice is urgently welcomed.
Thank you,
- Merauder
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