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| 777888999 | PostPosted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:24 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jun 23, 2009 6:32 pm Posts: 15 | | Hey all
I recently k-closed a bar promotion girl. I added her on facebook first - seen her out and went to another bar with her, k-closed. She had to go off with her gril friends and I asked for her number, she said to email her. I did and I still have no answer . . .
now here my question. I think we have mutual attraction (otherwise the kiss wouldnt have happened), but what do I do next. If I get an answer I can reply and take things from there. . . .
however if I do not, I will see her out again on friday - now do I just say hi and display alpha body language, or do I say something (probably C+F, like "im still waiting for my date!!!) and carry it on from there.
oh on a side note, I really like this girl (and it isnt oneitus) so what can I do??
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| Riott | PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 9:21 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:55 am Posts: 106 Location: Tacoma, Washington | | She's still waiting for her date with you. Don't put yourself in the situation where she's calling the shots, or she's in control. When that happens, she's running game and you're getting played.
When you see her again, just be confident. Open other girls, talk to other girls- hook up with other girls. You two are by no means exclusive, and the jealously could make her more attracted to you.
The big thing is not being too reactive to the fact that she's blowing you off. If you're all reactive and "I'm waiting for my date," regardless if it's cocky or funny- it still puts the frame that you were thinking when you were going to get your date. Just forget the fact that she blew you off and continue with normal gaming.
Use qualification hoops to get her to build investment. When a girl is invested in an interaction she'll be a lot less likely to flake.
Hope that helps.
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