There is this girl that I get involved with every now and then. We have only madeout, but there is a great deal of sexual tension. We have never had the chance to be alone for long enough to escalate any further.

Anyways, last night I was talking to her on the phone and we were talking about a lot of things. Eventually she started talking about our relationship (We decided a boyfriend girlfriend relationship wasn't right for us at the moment.)

Soon she asked me what I expect from her. I had no idea what to say to this. I told her that I wouldn't do anything that we're both not comfortable ready and willing to do.

She wanted more.

What would be a good response to say to this?

You decided this or did she?

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Just say you expect her to stay in the kitchen.

Mainly her. I feel the same way though, because we don't hang out enough to be in a relationship at the moment. We talked about it before and she still madeout with me last time we hung out.

Edit: Also we had a short relationship at one time and it did not work out. It's been just recently during the summer when we started to get involved again.

same situation, i want to see where this goes

tbh i would probably say something like "a bj" (if she was their with me i would prob push her head down at this point) maby laugh..

if she gets all offended the words "only joking" will save you most times