I find that I can attract girls easily enough but then I find that I get stuck in the comfort stage, I mean I comfort the fuck out of them to the point where they probably don't think of me sexually anymore and just as a nice chit-chat buddy.

For example, this day 2 I had with this blond HB 8 at a coffee shop, I had a couple of ideas for venue changes and all that jazz but in the end we just got caught up talking and talking for hours. I mean it was a great date in the sense that we had a lot to talk about but by the end of it (and following a couple of texts afterward) I felt like the spark wasn't there anymore. The sexual chemistry was gone and instead I was more like a friend to her.

I'm wondering if you guys have any tips on closing the deal, whether its going in for that kiss close at the bar or making a move at the end of a day 2. This seems to be an area that I really struggle in.

Im in the same situation, not from over comfort but i think more because i dont comfort enough. Any tips for us from the good closers out there??

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