Yeah so i decided to check up on my x since i cut off contanct with her for about 3 months (our last visit finished on a lay lmao).

So I just cant k-close. She wants it but she seems to resist it so bad.

I played every trick in the book:
Bet i can kiss you without touching your lips.
What would you say if i`d kiss you right now.
etc...

She only came to kiss me once while we were in a petshop cause well i just build up attraction too much.

She dosent wanna kiss me due to her bf hahaha
Yet I still did it.


Apperently i`m seeing her for the last time on monday cause its better off we cut off contact for her relationship. I gotta F CLOSE.

She even said:
"Its so hard to resist you ...."

Plans to get her to comfort zone people

If you're trying too hard to get in her pants- it's going to come off as try hard.

You need to flip the scripts and make her work for it- regardless of her having a boyfriend. Guilty or not, she's already crossed the threshold of cheating by hanging out with you and kissing you.

Comfort is already there. Don't plow too hard, because when you try way too hard she has all the power and sets the expectations for the interaction.

Try a small dis qualifier on how you wouldn't hook up with her, because you ain't easy. If the boyfriend comes into the conversation- try to change the subject. Don't acknowledge things in conversation that don't help you on where you want to go.

Hope that helps.