Okay so me and my buddy took two friends out a couple of nights, the first night we smoked alot of pot and munched out and had a laugh. Then tonight the second time we went out. They showed up already blitzed and we weren't nearley as stoned as them and it was really awkward because they were on different level than us and had their own conversations amongst each other. She even at one point called us boring which I knew was an immediate bad sign. We are going out on Canada Day together to and getting drunk and going to the club so I think I might be able to fix it there. Need some pointers though boys.



Sorry if you feel my hobbies are inappropriate Marijuana is completely accepted where I live.

Drugs are bad for you
dont do them---pot lowers your testoserone and will make you effeminate and less manly--drugs will fuck up your life and kill you


dont worry about her calling you boring she was out of it she wont remember

I don't want to derail this into a drug debate, so I'll just address your issue at hand.

you are leaving too many things to chance on your date. here's why:

- you are bringing friends. not only do you have to make sure you don't say/do something to f*ck up the 'date', now you have to make sure your friends don't.

- weed. i'm a collegiate wrestler who indulges in pot, but I would NEVER do it on a date. when under the influence, your cognitive faculties are slow, you aren't as witty and you can't think on your feet. basically, it makes you dumb.

i have a fuck buddy who is also my smoking girl. we fuck and smoke together a lot. but when i first met her, i still had to demonstrate all the values and attraction switches needed to get to that level of comfort/attraction.

Until that comfort and attraction is set, i don't like taking chances on group outtings and especially not pot. its too unpredictable.

its hard to give you pointers on what to do next, because the information is so sparse. all I can say is - don't get too drunk when you see her (drink to be sociable) but try to remain switched on and at full game.