Hey guys,
I've been hanging out with LSE HBHead for over a month (hanging out = come over to "watch tv"). I've fucked her twice but now I just get head and lots of LMR when it comes to sex. Last night I get the line she wants to take this "slow" (I think she thinks we're dating). She seems like a good girl type but that's always a front.

Her main LMR line is that she makes love. I told her thats BS on that because shes mentioned having a ONS in the past and plus... she fucked me twice already. Her other excuse is that my dick is too big and it hurts -- I'm clueless on how to properly respond to this.

I get pretty far when escalating in the bedroom, her pants off, playing with her etc. I get her talking really dirty. But then all of a sudden she goes cold and starts the LMR. Pussy dries up (blames it on the fan???), etc. From there it's just a blowjob for me and she positions herself so I can't touch her. (Not complaining ) I have pulled her off my dick and have tried to re-escalate but no go on getting her to fuck again.

Ideas? Do people "make love" without being in love? I've never been in love so I have no idea wtf that means. How can I fake this mood/feeling in the bedroom? I don't mind lying to this girl either, my game has no rules.

Man. Guys without codes are such slime. Half-heartedly hope you don't catch a case.

Maybe her pussy is dry because you're not very good at foreplay. It definitely isn't the fan. It could be something wrong with her, too, so maybe you should try some lube. Lack of lubrication might be why you're hurting her, too. If fucking this girl hurt like sandpaper, would you get hard if she tried to initiate sex? That might also be why she can't get aroused with you.

So here's the practical advice. When she says she wants to "make love", that means she wants to you to be calm, in control, smooth. She does NOT want a fucking quicky, she does not want you to be an animal. She wants you to strip her down and give her a backrub. She wants you to spend some time on her ass and pussy, too. This might be all it takes to get the flood gates open. Most of all, she wants you to FUCKING notice and care if you're HURTING her, you retard. If she's still not ready to go after appreciating her body, you'll have to eat her out.

If you really are too big, you'll have to experiment with what positions are comfortable for her or not go balls deep. It's a shitty problem, I almost feel sorry for you. Pun intended, I hear anal sex is a good solution if the girl is too tight up front for you.