I am completely new to the game. Anyways, i was at the mall and decided to overcome my approach anxiety. I talked to this girl (used a situational opener) and used very little kino (mistake I know). So the girl is 18 and is a senior in high school. I asked her if she liked to go clubbing. She says she did + I asked her if she wanted to go clubbing/bar this weekeng. (another mistake I know, bad place to meet). She said she was going on vacation this weekend, so I asked if she wanted to go next weekend. (bad idea b/c thats like 10 days away!)

I asked for her number (mistake, I know) and she gave it to me.
The problem is I dont want to wait till next weekend. I think she will forget about me. Should I call her tommorow?(call or text?) Should I try to build kino + kiss close on first date? I dont think I could
F-close based on what I have said. What do you think? Any advice on anything is appreciated.

Dont be surprised if she ends up flaking on you, since after all you did make a lot of mistakes.

BUT I was just listening to a podcast about calling and texting. And based on the current situation. I say call her and just talk to her. Try and make her laugh a lot, and make her tell you about herself.

To keep mystery dont reveal too much about yourself, at least if you have a choice in the matter. If she asks you a question answer it but not in vivid detail.. (?maybe?)

Dont ask her out on a date yet...as a mater of fact wait untill the highest point of the conversation and tell her you have something to do and that you have to go. ( once again make it seem mysterious, but not ''shady'') When you do ask her out dont call it a date, try and find some reason to meet up with her if possible. I dont think this is a big issue either way. However, having a reason to see her apart from it being a date will take off pressure from her. Once again, I dont think that it would be a big deal either way since you were kind of up front about it already.

Sorry about the flake comment, but one thing I learned friend is that you should never give up, give in, or settle when it comes to women. If you have her and shes yours, unless you really want to dont stop the PU with her or any other girl.

Strangely, I think she wont flake on me. Who knows. Thanks for reading my post. Im not sure how to keep her interest on the phone and not use all interview questions.

how did it go man?