so after a meeting yesterday, when it ended i told her to call me when she knew what was up. she called me around 9, i was eating dinner with some friends and shewas with 3 other girls and 3 other guys, obviously the only one without a hookup. i told her i as catching this house dance party which she seemed uninterested in. i told her id get ahold of her later that night or something. i thn texted "it's loud, ima call you later" at around 11, she replied "OK that's fun". called her around 1AM as i was walking back to my dorm but she did not pick up. i may have lost her. i am def not going to call her back at all, unless she calls me. this is the same girl i rejected when she drunk dialed me to come over. anysuggustions on my position? tips much appreciated. -Rye[/list]

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thats a good idea not to call her anymore, but if she has the same mindset then you might have to initiate some communication first to get back in the game.

wait 3 days or so, and if she doesn't call or text then just casually text her one day saying "i have to wait for blahblah _____....entertain me for an hour" or something along those lines, then just start up your game again.


good luck bro

Give up on the late night shit man. Set up a time to hang out with her earlier in the day or night. Do you have enough attraction/comfort built up with her to hang out at 1am?