So I've been gaming this girl now for a a little less than a week or so we went to dinner then hung out at my house / some decent kino - then failed at K close I went to kiss her cause I thought she was ready but she kinda pulled back so I was like oh sorry guess that was a little unexpected, she was like yeah but then closed her eyes and I went for it again 2nd time not such a fail but wasnt totally happy with it.

I texted her afterwards saying " hey sorry if I offended you I had a really good time tonight and just wanted to kiss you"

her-NO you didnt, just surprised me...lol, I had fun too
me - left it at that

Didnt call her but she texted me around 7 or so saying how was your day?
me- Great! Real busy and I have a funny story to tell you later. U?
her - blah blah blah
me - ok cool ill call you in a little while

I called in an hr or so - I talked to her on the phone and told her I was busy tuesday and thursday but wednesday I was thinking of going bowling and I decided to take her with me (not the best of ideas but its all I had! ah) she said oh yeah ok Ill go with you. Chat her a little longer end convo

Next day convo everythings fine basically I feel like ive done well - constant cocky funny humor / keep her laughing etc. this is where I need advice.

She then texts me and says "hey is it ok if my friend and maybe her bf come bowling with us?

Obviously I didnt really want them to come but I couldnt just say no so I replied - ya as long as they have red hair and wear blue tshirts. j/k ya thats fine - continue to text for a little while. Now were all gonna meet up tonight.

Does she need more comfort?
Does she think that was a lame ass idea?
Does she really want to just hangout with her friends for approval?

What should I have said and how should I act tonight?

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Um from the sounds of it she was asking you for a double date.

Treat it like a double date.

From what you told me it sounds like you failed a kiss close but you two kissed right after?

Remember if you did kiss close, and it's a double date, that's very good. It means she thinks she can introduce you to her friends.

dude....thats a good thing. It may not be a complete isolation because her friend and her bf are there but think about it. It's not like she's asking if she can invite her friend and her friends girlfriend, or some boys. It sounds like a double date and she doesn't wanna be third wheel. This is where you come in, you compliment her and now you have 2 couples who can have fun together. You will have the ability to have isolation with her when her two friends are chatting and yet you still have the option to DHV and build rapport with her friends.

-Sleye