2nd date with this girl. Ended up being a 8hr affair which ended at her place.

We had pizza, walked through the park holding hands, made out a little on a park bench. I drove her to her house (she took the bus to our date) and we sat and talked, giggled and laughed for 4+ hours. I gave her a foot rub and light massage. on her legs. She didnt seem to pull away but she had mentioned she wasnt very affectionate to new people. Ok np. During our convo she said that she didnt know if she was physically attracted to me. Didnt phase me (she invited me in for a freggin drink for christ sake) but...

So towards the end I go in for another kill shot. End up making out for a little longer but she pulls away at the end. Says "hmmm well im still debating you". At that point I made a funny comment like what she said didnt even matter because it felt like a test and I froze her out by leaving.

Two questions:

1. Pretty sure this was a test. Did I respond accordingly? (she kissed me goodbye at my car)
2. How long should I wait before txting her for a 3rd date? I'm thinking 3 days minimum.

sounds like you did a good job. it defo was a test, i dont see the point of a girl telling you "i dont know whether im physically attracted to you yet" without expecting something clever in return but who knows.

i would wait 2-3 days, depending on how much you think she actually likes you. if she seems like the type of girl that knows what shes doing, be weary.

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