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PostPosted: Sat May 22, 2010 12:50 am 
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Girl initiated hanging out a couple times alone. We met through some friends and she is interested. But she happens to be sort of talking with another friend of mine and they say they are just kind of talking and not sure where it is going to go. She said she doesn't like being in the situation where she is attracted to me but was starting to talk with this guy. Looking for advice for next time how to close on a situation like this, also there is plenty IOI’s. I just need to let her know it’s alright if something happens between us because she is holding herself back. I know if I don’t close very soon I will be getting the “we are all better just friends.”


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PostPosted: Sat May 22, 2010 6:20 pm 
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Girl initiated hanging out a couple times alone. We met through some friends and she is interested. But she happens to be sort of talking with another friend of mine and they say they are just kind of talking and not sure where it is going to go. She said she doesn't like being in the situation where she is attracted to me but was starting to talk with this guy. Looking for advice for next time how to close on a situation like this, also there is plenty IOI’s. I just need to let her know it’s alright if something happens between us because she is holding herself back. I know if I don’t close very soon I will be getting the “we are all better just friends.”
Well it seems obvious that you are both interested and it seems like she is telling you exactly what you just said, make your move now or she will move on because she isn't going to wait on you forever. So man up and create some sexual tension and go for the kiss before your friend beats you to it!

Good luck, although it sounds like you won't need it


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PostPosted: Mon May 24, 2010 5:42 am 
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Girl initiated hanging out a couple times alone. We met through some friends and she is interested. But she happens to be sort of talking with another friend of mine and they say they are just kind of talking and not sure where it is going to go. She said she doesn't like being in the situation where she is attracted to me but was starting to talk with this guy. Looking for advice for next time how to close on a situation like this, also there is plenty IOI’s. I just need to let her know it’s alright if something happens between us because she is holding herself back. I know if I don’t close very soon I will be getting the “we are all better just friends.”
Well it seems obvious that you are both interested and it seems like she is telling you exactly what you just said, make your move now or she will move on because she isn't going to wait on you forever. So man up and create some sexual tension and go for the kiss before your friend beats you to it!

Good luck, although it sounds like you won't need it
We went out to the bar last night and they didn't talk, although did text later in the night after he was a jerk to her but she made sure I knew that he was fucking up. She made sure to tell me she noticed me talking with a few other girls there, and I did give her casual attention just didn't overwhelm her. Anyways, she wants to hangout sometime soon she said. I do not want to end up in the friend zone and I would have went for a close if she wasn't "talking" with this guy. I want to let her know I'm down to see what can happen between us, just don't know how to play this one.


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Dude,
From your perspective she is all about you and there is no sign that she wants to just be friends. So if you hung out last night, then call her tomorrow evening and make plans to go out with her solo.

Are you afraid to ask her out? How are you planning on making your move?


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not at all, its just about stealing her from the guy she is slightly talking because we are all in the same group of friends to she says she doesn't know why. I don't care about winning her its just how to do it classy.


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