Hey guys. I'm not very experienced with day 2's and I was wondering if there were some general rules to follow. I also got a couple questions.

Setting up a day 3... I'm assuming it would be ideal to set up a day 3 while you're on the day 2. I read something about "future pacing." It basically puts ideas of activities that you and the girl could do together in her head.
E.G. you: "so do you like Thai food?" her: "I've never tried it" you: "It's awesome, you gotta try it sometime we'll go soon for sure"

*General old school gentlemen rules* (opening doors, walking her to the door, etc)
I'm wondering how you should approach these. My read on this tells me it depends on the girl and the vibe you create. If you create a casual hang out vibe you might want to hang back on this stuff. Although at the same time if she's kinda old fashioned she might expect things like that. Some clarification here would be great.

If the day3 was just hinted at and not set up during the day 2 when is the best time to do that. The next day, the day after next? etc.

*Kino escalation*
What are some solid ways to kino while walking? I can think of some ways to do it, but it's always good to have multiple ideas floating around. Also when walking should you try to do some sort of eye contact?

I've seen some questions you can use to really spike some attraction but some of them seem awkward to ask during a first date/ hang-out. E.g. "do you make a good girlfriend?"

Feel free to post any other day 2 tips, tricks, and rules. Make sure you are specific, specifying the venue and time of day these worked for you.

hey there. I'm having my first d2 with a girl that i've been building a relationship with for months. it sparked some controversy on this forum too (i was a noob when i first needed help with this girl). We even fell out for a month (freeze) over something we both can't remember. At the time i thought shit... but now i realized because she's at school i see her everyday so i shouldn't be so needed... and realized that those issues were just an attraction building relationship... no shit i didn't see her/ blanked her for 3 months at college but we are good now.

so i'm going to run this routine today when she comes round. I've used it on ppl before and closed a girl (not sex close) with it so here goes:

She comes round to my house and before she get's there i walk onto the drive and say hi... this way [this is theory] she is comforted and does not have the anxiety of waiting at the door whilst knocking.. eek

we talk, how are you etc. then i open the gate to the back garden... now this is were the gentleman behaviour comes in... i let her go first. thats it... so simple. i literally just wait a second so she goes through the gate first... i don't gesture or anything [maybe hold the door/gate open] and she'l smile and say thanks... but you did it naturally.. you made no scene of it, just your normal respone... she'l think your a gentleman... not old fashioned... just a nice guy... omg i keep putting these dots... ... argh...

so she's in my back garden and i show her around very briefly (there is a suprise in the garden)

then i say "i'll give you the guided tour" i open the back door for her and again let her go first. THEN i go into the awesome routine which i have all the credit for... but am just posting on this forum for the first time.

MTV CRIBS. i say to her.. i'll give you the cribs tour. [corny american accent] and she her the fridge and it's contents and be like "everyone needs mayo" or n e thing stupid thats lurking in the fridge. Then i show her the rest of the house.. showing any little item and the story that goes with it. the MTV CRIBS style of it means shes not just looking at your junk around the home. A show her all the rooms of the house.

BUT before we get to my bed room i say "ok this is my bedroom, i havent decorated yet" and actually open up the closet door in the hallway." she'l laugh. point to like a shelf or summit and say theres my bed or w/e.

i then show her my room etc.

we go back downstairs.. i'll offer food/drink nothing amazing just like a glass of juice or some biscuits or summit.

then i show her the surprise in the garden which is my 2 pet tortoises which are really cute... so girls love them.

then we'll play on the trampoline... play fighting.

then either walk around the field or go in and watch a film on my bed. generally we'll end up talking instead of actually watching the film. Then after some good banter i'll put my arms round her whilst lying on the bed watching the film. possibly some play fighting etc. then i'll say she smells good. then i'll say "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" then ill look away and carry on watching the film. I'll judge her response by looking over in a cheeky manner and see what states shes in. if its not on i'll pretend nothing happend. if its on i'll roll on top of her and embrace. bang!!

woooo

be yourself. be fun. be spontaneous. tell her about yourself and family etc. and ask about hers. find things in common. you don't need to suggest a day 3 until she's leaving. just something like "that was fun... bye.... hey wait, i'm having a party next week." etc. etc.

tell me what happend hombré

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