| Hi this is my first post here, so please don't crazy flame if this is the wrong forum, or if I break any rules.
Here goes:
My Backround 26 year old Model, Bartender, I've read the game, mystery method, scene a few videos, I consider myself more of a "natural"
Target's Backround She's a 10, works at hooters, I've known her for a year, She dated one of my friends for 6 mths, broke up and started dating a new guy for the last 6 mths.
I've seen here once a week or so either at hooters, the gym, or my bar.
I asked her about her relationship status with her last BF on Monday May 3rd. She said she it was rocky and she was just about done with him, I number closed.
The next night, tuesday, she got off work around 1, I was getting out of the local bar around 1, I went over to her house, ( she was 100% sober ), we talked , got to know eachother, and made out on and off. Lasted about 3 hours. One of the things we talked about was how we had both cheated on our ex's and how we both had reputations for being "players"
The next night, weds, I found out she banged her ex.
-I'll try and make this next part as short as possible. Basically i'm good friends and work with the girl who dated my targets ex for 4 years. I started talking with her, about my target, and it turns out he was fucking both of them for the last 6 months.
Both of the girls talked to eachother figured everythng that was going on, and that was that.
-The next day, thurs, I met up w my target for a birthday party. I made out with her some at the bar, but I failed to close, her friends took her home.
-Satarday, I took her out for dinner, made out a little when i dropped her off. She later came into my bar that night, and we made out across the bar while I was working. We went out after work, we went back to her house with her best gf and my best guy friend. Me and the target had a hard-core make out session, and then went to bed.
She was pretty drunk, and passed out right away. I left and went home in the midddle of the night.
We talked alot on sunday, and on monday.
I made a mistake on Monday, and invited her to go to rockshow with me the follwing week. I think it was me coming on too strong and giving her too much too soon. ( my reasoning at the time was, i wanted to give her a weeks notice so she could take off work ) She agreed to go with me and we made plans to hangout on tuesday night.
I was sick on tuesday, and she said i didn't have to drive to come over ( 30 min drive ) when she got off work around 1am again. She also said we wouldn't be kissing (because I was sick) and I wouldn't be spending the night.
---instead of staying home, I made the mistake of driving over there. ( reason being, just trying to build comfort ) I also made the mistake of telling her " i didn't mind, I just wanted to see her"
-so I got to her house, and we just talked and cuddled in her bed, 2 hours later she said she was tired, and I left. I didnt' try to make any moves, I had a sore throat and was sick. One of the things we talked about was how she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, and she cheated on her ex from 2 years ago, because he was too nice and too much of a pushover and she got bored with him.
-She was also slightly upset that night, because earlier that day, my friend who used to date her, came into hooters and was giving her shit for talking to me.
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Ok that's all the backround.
Last night, wednesay, we talked on the phone some (mainly about how my own friends were giving her shit about me talking to her) , and we agreed to talk to eachother later about *possibly hanging out weds night.
Few hours later we were txting back and forth and I asked her if she wanted to have a movie and relax night. ( around 8'30pm ) She told me she was still hanging out with her girlfriend, and she would let me know a little later.
Well, she never called me and she never texted me back letting me know.
I assumed right away that she wasn't going to, because I came on too strong with the rockshow invite, and with the driving over to her house the night before when I was sick. ---girls like a challenge. Especially player girls.
I ended up going out shortly after she told me " she'd lmk later " I figured she'd text me in a few hours and tell me she was going to bed. And I was just gonna respond, that I'm out and I'd talk to her later..
But she didnt' message me at ALL ! I need to know how I should play this?
Every thursday, me and the guys go to hooters, and she'll be working. She actually told me tonight that she wanted to go out after work on thursday. (she didn't say with me, per se, she just said go out) And she also wanted to know if I was going to hooters on thurs.
I don't know what to do? This girl is a 10, she's an admitted player, she just fucked the guy she was seeing last wednesday, the day after I made out with her ( she claims she is 100% done with him, after he was recently exposed for fucking her and his ex at the same time )
She's gonna text me tomorrow morning, prolly just say she passed out or some bullshit. Or she'll text me asking me if i'm coming to hooters.
I don't know what to respond? Should I just show up to hooters like usual, and act like nothing happened last night?
Should I not show up at all, and when she texts me , tell her I can't talk - i'm at dinner i'll call her later.......and then not call her?
I dont' like these games, it only happens with 10's. I'm used to hooking up withing the first or 2nd day, and then going out with them whenever I feel like it.
Thanks for reading guys, I appreciate any input.
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