I'm not sure why but this has worked for me when standing next to a girl I've been talking to at a bar; I mean literally at the bar, about to order a drink. I stand hip to hip with her and give a little pressure into her's. I turn to her and ask what she wants in a playful tone and put my hand on her hip. I then give a little half smile and rub my lips together a bit, making sure she's looking up at my face. I give her some pressure towards me with my hand and she'll go in for the kiss. This has worked probably 4 out of 9 times. So not completely proven but it's fun to try. I always gauge if she's ready for this by return kino through her hips. When it has worked my friend thinks I hypnotized her or I'm some sort of magician. I just laugh.
