Hey guys - Cleaning my apartment today, I came across a seduction prop I used several times with great success. This was from my days of internet dating where I had dates lined up several times a week. Usually after an initial meeting of coffee/drink and if that went well, then one more date at a neutral location like a restaurant or movie or something, I would steer the next date towards my apartment, either for a home-cooked meal (I'm a very good cook) or for an after dinner drink/DVD.

Anyway I found my large green foam dice, actually just one dice (die?) It's a roughly 3" cube of foam rubber and just looks just like its real but much smaller counterpart. I have a small collection of assorted trinkets on my sofa tables and it's just kind of hanging out in the mix. I used this prop whenever I was getting cozy with the girl on the sofa and I wanted to escalate in a perfect way that disarms her ASD.

Here's how it works - We're sitting on the sofa and I get the sense that she's Ok with a heavy makeout. First, I'd just start numbering body parts where there is exposed skin. I'd point to her shoulder and say "one". She doesn't know what I'm doing. Make sure there is no television or anything to compete with your commands. Then I'd point to her hands and say "two". I am smiling with my bedroom eyes, she's having fun but not getting it yet. Then I'd point to the rest of the body parts up to six and ask her to count them back to me. Then I'd reach over for the dice and ask her to roll it on the coffee table and I'd kiss whatever body part she rolled (without saying a word).

Every girl I've tried this on has loved it, probably because it's a way for the girl to put the blame for getting physical on the dice instead of on me. Make the first round innocuous (don't tell her that there are "rounds"), like cheek, forehead, shoulder, arm, elbow, hands, etc. Then if she's responsive to the first round, make the second round a little more intimate - lips, neck, belly, thigh, upper chest (bosom), etc.

After that there is no need for a third round.

OK so if she's still resistant to an f-close you can use the dice for a clothing removal game too but I've never had to do that. This has usually resulted a lot of rolling around naked on the sofa....