Hey guys,

i live in london and went bournemouth (2hrs drive) on the weekend and met this hb7.5,

I ended up going back to hers and screwed that night and in the morning having laid in bed together chatting etc.

I got her number when i left and she said i wouldnt call her but i did, she did say no presure though when she gave it to me ( dunno wat that means).

Anyway i left it 2 days and then i called her at about 11pm on tuesday, said a quick hello but she works late so she said she would call me back which she did at 11.30. We chatted till 12.15 so 45 mins.

She seemed quite interested, the next day i initiated the first of about 5 txts that day. This morning i also txted her and she replied but i dont want to look to keen, i know she must like me, shall i call again. as she is going on holiday nxt week and i dont want the flame to die.

so any thoughts.. Also wat sort of msgs do u send as sometimes asking questions just seems like i want a responsewhich looks desperate, i want some sort of escalation messgaes any ideas,

cheers

Dude, it sounds like your communicating too much with her via telecommunications. You've got to set up a date with her. Take her out to dinner or something, before you just become another friend through the airwaves. That's what I reckon anyway, don't quote me on it.

Congrats on the F-Close by the way. Things should get easier with girls after you've boned them, should they not?

Yea i would set summin up but shes on holiday for 2 weeks so i wanted to lay a foundation for when she gets back, anyway i spoke to her last night for ages again.

Ill leave it now till she calls me. !

You need to get face to face with her. Tell her that because she wont be able to see you for 2 weeks when she goes on holiday, you'l re-arrange a day in your diary for her, before she goes. Make sure its a fun night. If your looking for a girlfriend out of her, make it intimate, maybe dinner, if your looking for some more fun, have a night out in the clubs then back to your place. Should work a treat.

-crowbar