I have this HB who I was baiting for a long time and kept her interested through use of cocky funny and making myself scarce and busy. After a while I started letting her come around and kick it with me once every week or 2 (she lives in an outskirt city about 45 mins from where I reside). So I built great attraction and after a while told her she could be my GF.

What I found out was that the timing was bad because the next day her father told her he didn't want her at home no more (long story) and so she was gonna go live with her fam in NY til she finished beauty school. Thus she didn't end up being my GF cause I don't believe in long term relationships. So I spoke with her semi regularly over the phone over a couple weeks of her being gone keeping her laughing and playing games. Staying on her mind. So what happenned was I figured she was long range away and stopped communicating with her.

I moved on and kept gaming other HBs and her old friends out there set her up with a guy who became her new boyfriend. So I did like any good PUA would do and ran like hell far away. She moved back around January but her boyfriend left to college out of state I think. I've kept her away for a couple months not saying anything even on hilidays and now I don't think they are together no more.

I feel like letting her get back around me to re-game. I sent a random message to her a couple weeks ago online and joked that i was scolding her cause she had been gone for such a long time and her dinner got cold so i was cutting her off completely (joke about her parents). She bit and said No. We were going to be friends forever. I took that as an indicator of her and her boyfriend still being together so I changed the thread then bailed all together. Not sure if they are together or not (I dont think so but not sure). Called her today but she didn't pick up. So I'm gonna push her to the side for a lil while longer (too many consecutive days of unsuccessful contact = DLV).

So I need some advice. What are some good ways for me to get it back crackin in a few when I do decide to let her back on the team? What are some good approaches for engaging/reopening that type of thing?

nobody?

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