First of all I'd like to say hello to everyone even though it is not an 'Introduction' forum but anyways since it is my first post here.

Second... few words about my situation - typical 31 y.o. rAFC fresh out of almost 5yr LTR. I felt that I lost all of my game through relationship but as it turns out not all is lost.

Now to my rebound case #1:
I've been sarging online (I know I'm lazy and I should get out more and gone to a couple dates already.

This particular chick is 23yo HB7-8. She initialized conversation online and I just replied with some C&F stuff which (as expected) pissed her off and conv went from there. We finally met after about 1 month of casual online convo (she wasn't in town) and had a pretty good date that ended in a mild kino.

(Sidenote: guys - I love "lifestyle shopping centers" - you can take a girl to 4-5 different places without much effort and they absolutely love it.)

We started making out on a second date but she resisted going any further (I suspected it was a rag time but I usually don't ask). We had 2 more "dates" after that but she always bringing some of her girlfriends with us (excuses range from - "she gave me a ride and invited her over" to "my friend just broke up with b/f and I don't want to leaver her alone") and now... tonight she's inviting me over to a night club where supposedly bunch of her friends and co-workers are going each week. I'm kind of in doubt if I should really go there... I have a feeling that I'll get a bunch of excuses again for not going to my place - "I'm tired today", "What about my friend X?" and so on. I have a good friend that is winging me but I also afraid that after 3-4 shots we'll start hitting other girls. and it'll be another excuse for her too.

Anyway... I really don't have much feelings for her but it's more of a quest to score it now. She's definitely trying to pump up her value and I can see it. Kinda like "I'm not so easy to get to" type. So even though she's showing all signs of interest I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. Or should I just bow out all together?

All comments are welcome.
Yours truly,

Hum... The club is definitely the place to try for a F-close but only after having her turned on good and deep.

Make a VERY good excuse for going to your place. Certain topics bring particularly good excuses, like music and movies you can then "want to show her".

If she still refuses, then she doesn't want to have sex with you and probably never want to if she refused after being drunk and turned on in a club.

If you can't move on because you feel you have invested too much time to walk out without having "tapped that", you might want to ask her straight away (you guys have been dating for 2 months literally) why she doesn't want to get intimate with you.

If she gives you the whole "let's be friends" you'll know. If she's indecisive it means she needs more convincing,

If she says she wants to but has a specific problem it will be your call to help her solve it or not (and leave).

Thanks, El Frank.

I'm sorry I ended up double posting my question in a forum but anyways...

We never made it to the club last night... She was so tired that she went to bed for a nap after work and slept through the night (although as of this morning this is just "what she said" thing - i'm not 100% sure if that's true since I haven't seen her).

I'll freeze-out for now and give her sometime. If she's still up for it she'll have to prove it herself.