| First of all, my first post on the forum. As a brief background, recently out of a relationship, have some approach anxiety to deal with, prefer natural game to routines/openers, but overall have decent enough sucess with women. my main strength is that I am quick-witted (always can come up with something to say). I am not always confident as I would like to be, but once I get the impression that a girl is into me, my confidence soars.
Anyway, my question:
I was just down in Vegas for a few days. Went to a club down there.
Waiting in line, a group of 2 girls and one guy (one single girl and a couple that was together) was behind my group and were complaining about the line. The line was actually a semicircle, meaning first come wasn't necessarily first serve. bouncers picked and chose who got in. obviously girls would get in more easily than guys. They are planning their strategy of getting in. i turn over my shoulder and say something like, 'you probably have a better chance of getting in that we do' she smiles, says thanks. sometimes you get a certain look from someone that lets you know they are interested, and I got one. She got in the club and I got in a few minutes later.
Got myself a drink, scanned the club, eventually made my way around the dance area. I ran into the girl from outside, and she smiled and said"
'you got in!'
me: 'ya, i got in, but you totally left me hangin, you could have got me in way faster'
we kept talking and she grabbed me and started dancing. we made small talk for a bit, found out she was actually from a city near mine.
Then the dancing got more sexual, lots of talk between us about our sexual attraction to each other.
I kissed her on the cheek and the neck, and she did the same. then i looked her in the eyes and smiled and she smiled back, and I kissed her. couldn't have gone any better to be honest.
we danced, grinded and made out, talking playfully to each other for a few hours until the friends she was with (who she introduced me to earlier) tapped her on the shoulder.
She turned to me -
her: 'i have to go, my friends are leaving'
me: 'that sounds terrible'
her: 'ya, it was nice meeting you, i had fun'
right about here, I was not sure if I should ask for a number. if this was anywhere but vegas I would have for sure. the only thing was that she happened to be from somewhere somewhat close to me, so I am kicking myself for not asking. who knows though, vegas's "what happens in vegas" attitude makes it hard to read how serious a girl is. I can tell you there was definately some chemistry here though, so its a shame that I will most likely never see her again.
also, when she walked away to leave, she grabbed my hand and squeezed it tight, and I squeezed back then let go. all I could think of later is I really hope that wasn't supposed to be a queue for me to leave with her, because if so I definately would have.
Oh well, you live, you learn...
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