I met this girl at my job. We had instant chemistry the moment we set eyes on each other, it was a glance in passing.
Its a large company so the second time we saw each other was 3 weeks later and we were by the coffee shop.
We just smiled at each other and introduced ourselves... it seemed natural like I almost knew this girl.

I got back to my desk and got an email from her, saying hi and giving me her instant message id.
I only work there 10 hours a week so it took me a week to add her and start chatting.

I immediately asked her if she was checking me out teasingly. She said yes. Long story short... She told me her attraction to me as primal.

She got out of a 3 year relationship last November. She is 26.

First she said that she wants to get to know me.
(This was january) .. she invited me to coffee and told me she can't stop thinking about me. I kissed her.
The next day, she said over instant message ... "so are you ready to f**k" to which I said I'm flattered but I think we shoudl be just friends.
I was put off by the way she instant messaged me.... so I tried to avoid her.
She said she can't be friends with me because she wants to have sex... she said that her body has a physical reaction around me, and its just sexual.
She said she wants to make love just once and then leave.
She also said she can't date anyone right now (this was in january)

In the weeks that followed... our flirtations got more serious. We kissed each other again.
She told me she can't concentrate on work.
We kept flirting with each other over ims while at work. Her body language shows nervousness, she stops mid conversation and smiles cause she says she can't speak when I look at her sometimes.
She told me that she can't have sex with me, that its mind and body etc, not just physical.

My contract was up two weeks ago so I left that job.
Then we had a sex date planned that weekend for sunday! Friday we talked heavy flirting, saturday she texts me to tell me she's thinking of me. then sunday it was sex date night!
She cancelled last minute! and she said that she is afraid of what her emotional reaction will be like after we have sex.
I asked her what emotional reaction...
She said, getting attached to someone she shouldn't be with.
I asked her what is wrong with me according to her..
She said that she thinks she might get attached to me in a wife like way..

So I called her up. She said she can't have sex with me because her life is a mess.
She talked about her apartment and stuff.. how everythign is so out of order.
I said well, okay I'll help you clean up.. and she accused me of just wanting to get in her pants..
I was like well yeah! Thats what we talked about this whole time.
She said that she is not rejecting me but that she is confused.

A few days later we accidentally ran into each other at this lounge like snack place.
She came up to my table and flirted with me. My friends were with me.

(over text) Last saturday I invited her to hang out at this event with my friends and I for Valentines day.. it was a casual event.
She said she was going to be with friends and family but that it was nice to see me at the lounge spot.

I told her that my friends thougth she was flirting with me (over text msg) and she said that she was (flirting)
Then she said " I LOVE YOU" (allover text) I asked her to explain.. and she said love is a measur of how goodsomethingmakes youfeel.
I said "you lust me" (she did not respond back)

Then today I texted her to tell her I was thinking about her.
She texted back saying "I'm ready. Kisses"
I said "For what?"
She said " For you. To sleep together. Inviting youto a sleepover."
I said"when r you thinking about this sleepover"
She said "lets play it by ear. that she's having dinner with her best friend who advised against having it tonight since she hasn't had much rest"
I said ok, sounds awesome.goodnight.
She said.. kisses, goodnight.

IM CONFUSED! DOES SHE LIKE ME FOR SEX OR NOT? At first I thought it was just sex! Now I'm like confused if she wants more???
I don't know how she feels.

IS SHE JUST PLAYING GAMES?

She's really physically hot for you but that doesn't mean that's all it is.

But because you turned her down right away, she still can't help feeling she wants to do stuff with you, so then she just said it was just physical, so you would do it.

Then when it became an actual possibility she had to come to terms with the fact that she really might have feelings for you to begin with.

Couple of things sound like she might be a bit of work mentally (not nessecarily not worth it though ) - Saying her room is out of whack (like her mind), not ditching you after you turned her down so harshly (maybe a little bit desperate or clingy), and confessing she might get wife feelings for you - which I personally think could have been spurred by you just not letting her have a crack at you and it's all built up, combination of both maybe.

But I have seen this plenty of times - two people who are thinking about each other so much that they're calling each other lots, talking about each other to their friends, and posting on forums about each other, but still saying "oh it's only sex" Stop kidding yourself and go official - everyone I've convinced to do this has thanked me for it.