So a few days ago a national festival started in the Netherlands, its called 'carnaval'. This festival is traditionally from catholic origin and is supposed to let the people party before they abstain for a week. Well, there is not much of this traditional meaning left. In fact, everyone just dresses up and gets excessively drunk for 5 or 6 days straight, which is awesome. As you can understand, this festival is great for sarging as everyone is peacocking, which makes it a hell of a lot easier to approach.

So a few days ago I went to a bar nearby but the place was really crowded, so there was a large line in front of the bar. I didn't care as I was drunk and went on to wait in line. After an hour or so I was close to the door and there was this HB8 standing right behind me. Since it was really crowded we got pushed together and we couldn't move. She was dressed op like a bee and she looked really really cute! I started a conversation with her, and she seemed like a cool girl. Unfortunately I didn't see her again that night.

The next day I went to Breda, a city nearby to go carnavalling, but since my friends were all cockblocking me, I went back to Etten-Leur (my city) to go to the bar I was at the day before. As I went inside to hang up my coat, I got tapped on my shoulder, and there was the girl from the day before. We chatted for like a minute or so, and out of the blue she kissed me. We started making out heavily on the hallway, when she told me she was horny. I told her she should come over to my place, but she couldn't do that, as she was with a friend of her. We went on with the making out, #closed and I went home.

The day after that had happened I have sent her one textmessage were I asked were she went carnavalling the next day. She said she would be at the same bar again, and so we met up again (that was yesterday). We did kiss, but she did not seem so interested anymore, so I would like to know what is the best way to get that attraction back. I also think she had seen me making out with another girl, so I don't know if I f'ed this up totally or if it is possible to escalate and maybe even f-close. If yes, how would you recommend doing it? Tonight is probably the last night I can meet her so I hope anyone here has some good advice:)

Thanks in advance

A girl seeing you kiss another girl cannot f up your chances. it helps your chances.

It's a DHV and it show that you're pre-selected,another DHV.

So stop thinking like a wuss. You should be kissing 20 girls in her presence.

Now,what you must realize is this- Buying Temperature(BT).

Yall have been carnivalling and drinking like crazies(lol),the girls's BT is pumping like crazy,she's stimulated like a wild dog. She's "ON",just like any other girl carnivalling.

The downside is,when this girl's BT has descended(she's now sober,thinking rational, not horny,etc.),she becomes disassociated with her slutty behaviors when her BT was high.

You'r trying to hook up with her when her BT is low;she's some what rational.

She doesn't want to hook up with you nor any other man unless she's at BT.

You had your chances o lay her while she was "ON"- at buying temperature.

You failed to take advantage of her horny state by not fuccing her.

She's displayed her naughty side to you while on BT(a bit drunk,etc).

Now that she's rational(when you tried reaching her),she's feeling slutty and she's unwilling to face you. Her ASD(anti-slut defence)is now activated.

Your best bet is to catch her at her hang out while she's at BT then escalate and lay her.

If you leave it for another day(when she's sober or not in a party mode),she will flake. She won't meet up.

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