ok this is my first post here and im having trouble with closing this girl (7.5). to not get into to much detail, we've been texting each other off and on for a cpl weeks and have been to lunch a few times. theres an obvious attraction, alot of kino and overall sexual tension. the problem is we've never hungout together alone. this is due to a few problems; im always at the bars with my friends and she cant because she is under 21, she lives on campus while i live off and just overall conflicts in schedules. so over the weekend she texted me we should get lunch sometime this week and we are tomorrow. hopefully i can chill with her on thursday, because my parents are gone til friday. i live in my own apartment downtown, but am staying at their house while their gone. i want to hookup with her or F-close her thursday night and i know i can, but im having trouble thinking of a way to ask her to come spend the night while not being completely straightforward and creeping her out. she would have to spend the night too, because of logistics (she has no car and to far of a drive to pick her up and drop her back off). any ideas to bring this up with her tomorrow, will be appreciated.

Ok, first off. Never phrase it as 'Spending the Night', that implies sex. And if your implying sex your one: giving her a choice, a choice that will hurt her social value if she answers it 'yes' and two: Your setting off all the alarms in her ASD by phrasing it like that.

Read up on the ASD and LMR.

Don't give her much choice.

Get her off campus after lunch by saying you need to buy some shit for your house sitting, and ask her to come to keep you company.

Then while out ask her if she's seen some movie (one that you have a DVD of at your parents).

if yes AND she likes it say,
"me too, we're gonna go watch it again now"

if yes AND she hates it say,
"you have to see it again, i know you'll like it, we're gonna go watch it again now"

if no say,
"you'll love it, we're gonna go watch it now"

You can be more eloquent, but you get the idea.

This way your insinuating that you want to F her without saying it. If she's with it, she will agree.

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