I'm sure everybody here can agree that once you appear to be desperate and too willing then its game over. And not just any game over, its game over in a Jigsaw voice.

So I number closed on an HB9 one night after a good amount of IOI's. I text flirt with her a lot and its always been mutually playful and flirtatious. This is at a University Campus, and I caught her staring at me at the rec center afterwards and had a chit chat there. However I have hit her up three times to meet up. Now the thing is I am almost positive she isn't blowing me off, like she actually had shit to do/plans with friends already (university campus, closed system, people have lots of homework, and I have my sources). Or maybe it really is game over who knows. Fuck it, she's a hot as hell. And no, I'm not zeroing in on this girl (I kissed closed another 2 nights ago).

How can I salvage this situation? I don't wanna hit her up again cuz I'm pretty sure that would look desperate. Now I know most of you would advise me to say fuck it and move on. Still, I'm sure a good PUA would know how to handle this.

My buddies and I are soon gonna throw a party where there's going to be a team drinking contest. I was thinking of calling her and telling her I need as many people to come and support my team. This way it isnt such a personal invitation. As opposed to something that says "hey come hang out with me, one on one."

???

if she wants to see you and she's busy she'll suggest another time/day

don't ask again. I'd send a cocky/funny txt where you are the prize and she's not good enough for you

Even if she was the busiest woman in the world, she'd find some time for you...


...if she really wanted.

It is true that if she was into you that she would offer an alternative. I would wait at least a full week before you contact her again, and later in the weekend. Give it a few weeks if you can. If she can't meet up then, then move on.

I know when it comes to the real hotties, you may fall back on AFC-status. I've been there. Just stay on your game!

I understand all your points. I guess the best I can do is wait it out.