Hey All,

I've recently just got into the game (i'm 18 now). Anyway, i've met this girl i really like, and we've chatted a fair bit - went on a few group outings (not really any dates yet). She gave me her number and we seem to get along well.

HOWEVER she's never had a boyfriend before OR many boys in her life so far, so i think she's a little inexperienced ? Anyway i met up with her for a coffee (since i've never had coffee before - so she decided to take me out) and we were talking and all, but i didn't get any chances for much kino/k-closing

i'm looking for IoIs but i dont seem to be getting that many *explicit* ones. Mostly implicit. Anyway i'm seeing her in a week, so i thought i might try the hershey's kisses routine for a first kiss ?

So far i've kept everything really playful, and we pretty much banter the whole time we talk. Does this mean i'm definitely NOT in the friend's zone ?

I'm really not sure how to proceed from here ? how to get the K-close WITHOUT it being awkward/forced ?

Oh and i want to get her to be my girlfriend later...i was thinking of the box routine - where i write "would you like to go out with me" on a piece of paper then have a massive "Yes" box and a tiny "no" box... any comments ?

Thanks
Laevelocic.

The BEST way to make your interactions involve kino, is to start them with a lot of kino. It's more awkward to start touching when you haven't already. A good kiss on the cheek/nice to meet you is always good.

That's the general rule.

Since you broke that rule you need a solution. When you see her, give her a hug. High five her for something early on in the date and make comments on her hands being small and match them up with yours. Little things like that.

Touch her on the back and speak into her ear something funny you noticed about a stranger nearby. Any time you CAN or think you SHOULD touch her, TOUCH HER!

Don't do the Hershey Kiss or the box thing.

Escalate kino until it becomes a kiss.

Sometimes you will have a hurdle and need a kiss close. If she's holding your hand SHE WANTS TO KISS YOU. If you don't want to do a k-close routine that's canned, the goodbye is always a good place to introduce kissing. You give her a hug goodbye and sort of hold on on the way out of the hug. If she does the same and looks up at you, smile and lean in.

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Hey yeah - i had plenty of kino when i was with her at NYE - ie whispering in her ear, lightly pushing her at the small of the back when going through crowds, hugs, taking a few pics together and stuff.

When i see her/when we say goodbye we always hug goodbye so that's fairly natural. I don't think she's the "touchy" kinda type so holding hands might be a "big step" for her... anyway to escalate ? I've done the 5 questions game, which worked like a charm, and if she wears a different ring, i usually grab her hand for a "closer look". I'm thinking of doing the cube routine on her in a week ?

Oh and she hates dancing (i tried to take her dancing on a dancefloor at a party and she fully refused)

Why not do the Hershey Kiss Or box thing ? is it just because it's cheezy/really afc style ? I really thought the hershey's kiss routine would be great cause even if i DO get a "no" it does come across as a rejection, and turns it into something playful/funny.

How do i get into the "right SPAM" to get the kiss ? Like what to talk about/what kinda kino should i be doing at the moment? I was thinking going for the smelling hair/perfume thing... Also how should i ask her out ? Phrasing? timing ?

Oh and i've added u on facebook - name is Jonathan.
Thanks

anyone ? opinions ?