he started talking to this HB on sunday. actually, i met her only once over a month ago and never really talked to her. she posted a happy birthday message on my facebook and i responded to it, thanking her. got to talking, she gave me her number so i texted her a few minutes afterwards. chatted for most of the day while i had some family over for my birthday.

after a little while, i told her i was taking a shower and that i enjoyed chatting wit her and we should do it again sometime . she agreed.

two days go by and she texts me "cuz she was so bored in class" i happened to waiting at school to schedule my classes so it worked out keeping me occupied while i waited the 2 hours to talk to someone. i told her that after this i had to work and i may text her later if i wasted busy...i didn't cuz i was.

my question is how long should i wait before i bring of the idea of getting together? any good first date ideas? she's not of drinking age so i out for drinks is not possible. and how much texting is too much? i want to show interest but not look desperate.

she seems interested, I'm sure if i brought up the idea of hanging out she'd go for it. or should i continue to fluff talk and build a little more comfort before i do that. like i mentioned i don't know much about her cuz i've really only met her once a few months ago.

Enough communication/time has gone by to contact her for a get together anytime. I suggest an outing with freinds and you're just inviting her to tag along.

Throwing a BBQ will also be cool. I say this a lot on forum but cooking the girl a really good dinner along with good game will really help you get into her pants. A bottle of red wine will also help since red wine increases the blood flow to the genitals which promotes horniness according to men's health magazine.

bbq in january, idk about that. and idk cooking a nice dinner for her after only really talking to her for 2 days?

i guess i was thinking more along the lines of movie, lunch, coffee..etc guess i answered part of my own question.

With phone game all you want to do is build enough attraction/interest to hang out. You can't build a real relationship over the phone and at this point the more you talk to her the more "phony" the relationship will be, and real communication will be awkward and need an adjustment.

Don't do a date. Invite her out to some plans you already have, or to tag along to a movie or some underage type event you're involved with or attending. This way you can also screen her to see if she can actually hang.

Phone game peaks early, you wanna get in, get a day2, and get off. You want to make moves fast to transition to real experience so the attraction and anticipation as peaked when you meet. Because of the lack of physical interaction here, phone/text game peaks early and then dies off if nothing happens, or you are just forgotten.

Act NOW!

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i tried to schedule the day 2 we had something planned but then i had to cancel because i had a got called for a meeting at work that night. i told i couldn't make it because something came up at work. she said it's fine because she didn't get paid at when she went into work so she wouldn't have been able to go anyway. i didn't even bother saying i would have paid and she get me next time-just left it. however she did continue to text me throughout the night.

i know i have to take it to the seduction level. I feel like comfort is building nicely. i just need to find the time to meet up.

she lives a few towns over so the convenience of something like "I'm going out for coffee I'll pick you up on the way" or meeting me for it isn't really there. I mean I'm i could do it cuz its not like she's that far.

any ideas?

Comfort without attraction puts you in the friend zone. Keep that in mind.

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no no I'm aware of that, I throw in flirtatious comments during our conversations.

like today she was telling me how she got a new bed. after a few back and forth about the bed i said, "you'll have to show me how comfortable it is sometime" her response was "that shouldn't be a problem".

leave things on a good note. keep that good thought hanging in the air for a bit. go kino when you see her right away so that kino isn't awkward later on.

Stop worrying.

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