Went out with this new girl for a day 2. Actually hung out at diff bars for about 9 hours. I kinda like her but I'm not completely sure. Anyway, I'd like to hang out again to find out and I'm just wondering how much contact you would initiate after a decent fun but not outstanding first 'date' and how far you'd go in between day 2 & day 3 in this situation. K closed this night, logistics prevented anything further plus it was 3:30AM and I was friggin tired.

Where to go from here

9 hours? Fuck me.. personally I would leave it till 5-7 days so it makes you look like you have other things to do other than see her. Show your HVness.

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Gotcha on the one week thing, I actually DO have other $hit to do. Truth is, I think she's really wondering if I actually like her. She's not super hot or anything, just cute and really cool so I don't need to over-do the hard to get thing. I've already pushed the limit before she gets self conscious and convinced that i DONT like her.

It was 9 hours b/c we met up fairly early and we ended up partying at this crazy wild bar till 230. Plus, we were having more and more fun as the night went on and I needed a chance to escalate.

I txted her the next day with a basic, I had fun, we'll do it again soon, with a lukewarm response that I didn't respond to.

I'm just wondering if you usually stay in contact a few times in between day 2 & 3 or if you just call/txt the next day and wait a few days until you schedule a day 3.

"let's meet up again. I'm super busy at the moment so lets do *insert a time 1week+ away*"