Went out with a cuttie on a day 2 (coffee) and a day 3 (party with friends), and didn't close the deal. For whatever reason, let's just say my game wasn't tight and now she is losing interest in me.

Considering that situation, if I want to persue her still, what's a good way to bounce back? Does it all ride on her seeing me having a good time with other women at the place she hangs at?

Is waiting a week or two and calling her to go out again a good idea?

I also just recently have developed contacts with her whole social circle, and have the numbers of a couple of her girlfriends. Should I take em out to have a good time?

Does anyone have a story they can relate where they bounce back from bad first dates?